My Listening Journey

Before I joined 7Cups, most of the time I’ll be half-listening in conversations while my mind raced to form my next response or wandered off to my own thoughts. Sometimes, I wasn’t really there at all.

It took time for me to understand that listening isn’t just about waiting for my turn to speak. It’s about truly hearing what someone else is saying. It’s about connecting on a deeper level, beyond surface-level exchanges. When I learned to truly listen, I discovered how much empathy and genuine connection it can bring to a relationship.

This wasn’t easy at first. Being observant and emotionally aware took practice and patience, but it also changed how I see myself.

Now, I strive to be someone who listens with my heart. I sincerely think you don’t necessarily have to be a Listener to listen well. As a member, you can provide support by fully absorbing what someone else is sharing and making them feel seen, valued, and understood.