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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

Mel
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Ambassador ------------------------- Thanks for stumbling into my profile :) It's very nice to see you! I'm Mel and I'm a young girl from Buenos Aires, Argentina. I'm a college student majoring in physics and I work as a teacher. I love explaining things - I think everybody deserves their chance at understanding a difficult matter, even if they need more time for it than someone else would.  I'm not much of a talker as a listener. I feel like it's very important that every single person out there has someone to rely on and be there for them. I want you to feel like you can tell me anything on your mind, feel heard, understood and never judged. That's what I aim for. I know I can't change your life nor magically solve your problems (Although I would really like to be able to do that) but I do can promise to be here, as much as possible and as much as you need. I'm your friend and I'll always care about you. I deal my own battles every day and I know that talking helps. You are never alone here. I would like to be a writer someday, because books mean a lot to me. Everything I want is what I write to be special for someone, if I could make at least one (only one) person feel something by something I wrote, I would already feel realized. Writing has always come naturally to me. It's who I am. As a kid, I would always grab a pencil and write, instead of drawing. I would always make stories up in my mind to tell other people. I would always write too much, speak too much, and take too long to tell an anecdote. I was born a storyteller. At the moment, I just do it for fun and for myself or my close ones. Anything else you would like to know about me, feel free to message me and ask, I'm pretty much an open book! and will love to get to know each other more. If you are around here and have any question or need someone to chat or you are a new listener and want a long term mentor to cheer on you and be happy for all your success - I'm your gal.  Much love, Mel. 
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BatmanAtYourService
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"ON A SELF-CARE BREAK!" "Verified Listener" Hi there! Thanks for visiting my batman cave! I'm here for you. I believe in you. You all are amazing. *Life is a journey that everyone goes through. Think of it as story told by you. There are many ups in life as well as many downs but it is up to the author of each story to determine the next chapter.* Also, No problem is too big or too small.  I love connecting to new members and guests. If I am offline, feel free to leave me a message and I will get back to you as soon as I can!   ALIVE IS AWESOME!   
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smilinghooman
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So after helping ppl find their own answers to their problems someone suggested me to go online and try to ease what little pain I can. Hope to help you to the best of my strength. Making you smile is my ultimate goal. I am also a peer supporter now, so feel free to ping me whenever you want after a hard chat or in general as well. Don't hesitate. I am always here for you.                And I have completed my internship at 7cups with honors.              
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Mogsyt
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Hello there! My name is Morgan, like you, I have been through lots I have experience with ADHD, autism, anxiety, depression, school, exams ext. I love playing the guitar and walking and I am a makeup artist.I would really love to talk to you. I love helping people. I have been bullied but I am living proof things get better, i went from an anxiety unit, back to mainstream school and have now been accepted in college and graduated this past November. I look forward to talking to you, remember how amazing you are. "Tomorrow may rain so i'll follow the sun"
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SilentSerenityy
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🌸 WELCOME! 🌸 I'm an experienced verified listener who is open minded, non-judgemental and I'm open to almost all topics. All I ask is that you respect my boundaries, such as my time constraints and/or my statuses (see at the bottom of bio). Whilst I support the topic of sexual health, this does not mean I am comfortable discussing kinks/fetishes, nor will I partake in anything of that nature either.  I cannot replace the role of a therapist/psychologist. If you feel that you need more support for your mental health condition or require advice, please reach out to a licensed professional. I am not able to support you during a crisis. If you feel you're experiencing a crisis, please contact a helpline here - https://www.7cups.com/crisis/ 🌸 AVAILABILITY 🌸 My time zone is GMT / BST. I am available to live chat for up to an hour at a time. I am open to arranging a time to chat if you'd like to chat for longer though! I work and am disabled, so my availability can vary quite a lot, which is why I'm much better at providing one off, short term support. However, I am happy for you to reach out to update me on what's been happening since we last spoke.  🌸 ABOUT ME  🌸 I'm in my late twenties, I have a cat who I adore and I spend a lot of my free time watching movies, cross stitching and playing video games. I live with multiple health conditions which makes life a little more challenging, but it means I can relate to members who are disabled or are living with chronic health conditions.   🌸 STATUSES 🌸S Online  I'm open to chatting/helping anyone, including listeners who might need some help with listening. Feel free to message me. Busy  You can request to chat, but I may not reply to your message or request, as I may be busy with other roles or helping others in chats.  Offline  I'm offline, having a self-care break, taking scheduled chats, supporting/hosting group discussions or unavailable to take personal requests. If I'm in a chatroom, please ask to send me a message. Being in a chatroom doesn't mean I'm available to take a 1-1 chat.
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Emily619
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This is a test, a test to see if you are a human. Please note if something applies to you: Have you ever eaten a booger long past your childhood? Have you ever made a small, weird sound when you remembered something embarrassing? Have you ever purposely lower-cased the first letter of a text to come across as sad or disappointed? Have you ever ended a text with a period as a sign of aggression? Have you ever laughed or smiled when someone said something unpleasant to you, and you wondered the rest of the day why you reacted that way? Have you ever put on a pair of pants, and then realized much later that there was a loose sock smushed up against your thigh? Have you ever tried to guess someone else's password so many times that it locked their account? Have you ever had a nagging feeling that one day you will be discovered as a fraud? Have you ever hoped that there was some ability you hadn't discovered yet that you were just naturally talented at? Have you ever broken something in real life, and then found yourself looking for an "undo" button in real life? Have you ever marveled at how someone you thought was so ordinary could suddenly become so beautiful? Have you ever stared at your phone, smiling like an idiot while texting someone? Have you ever subsequently texted that person the phrase, "I'm staring at the phone, smiling like an idiot"? Have you ever been tempted to, and gave into that temptation, of looking through someone else's phone? Have you ever had a conversation with yourself, and then suddenly realized you're a terrible person to yourself? Has your phone ever run out of battery in the middle of an argument, and it sort of felt like the phone was breaking up with both of you? Have you ever thought that working on an issue between you and yourself was futile, because it should just be more natural than this, or this is supposed to happen just naturally? Have you ever realized that very little, in the long run, just happens naturally? Have you ever woken up blissfully, and suddenly been flooded by the awful remembrance that someone had left you? Have you ever lost the ability to imagine a future without a person that no longer was in your life? Have you ever looked back on that event with the sad smile of autumn and the realization that futures will happen, regardless? Congratulations, you have now completed and passed the test. You are human. Want to know who has the best 7 Cups profile? Click here [http://7cups.com/11840748]!
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Fifa18
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Please feel free to talk :)
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ThankYouForLettingMeTryingToHelp
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1) My response times are slow. Even when I am working on making them faster, if you talk with me please note there will be delays. Thank you for your patience and understanding. 2) I help myself when I help you. 3) I had a 7Cups Gmail e-mail address, but I deleted it from this Profile page on 06/Feb/2020 because it is NOT OK to publish it here. 4) Some issues with my Username: * 08/August/2019: On this day, I found out that "ThankYouForLettingMeTryingToHelp" should be instead ThankYouForLettingMeTryToHelp. It seems the first one is Grammarly incorrect in English. I am sorry for my mistake. Thank you for pointing it out, @Nada and @DestroyingAngel.  * 18/October/2019: On this day, a 7Cups Member told me this: "Your name is still incorrect. ThankYouForLettingMeTryingToHelp. We all know that if you are "trying" you are not doing. A man should not try his best, a man should do his best. Your name subconsciously sends a message that you will "try" which implies failure is the most likely outcome. ThankYouForLettingMeHelp would be much more appropriate and will send a positive message that you will help." * 14/November/2019: On this day, a 7Cups Member told me this: "Saying "trying to help" means you will do your best expecting nothing from those you encounter. The way your username is written seems perfect. To me it seems humble and that you know that not everyone can be helped." 5) Apart from being a Verified Listener and an Intern Graduate, my other roles on 7Cups are OR have been: * Safety Patrol (flagging of inappropriate Listener profiles) {2022.10.25} * Member of the DJ Team (leaded by @Caringbrit) {2022.10.25} * Community Leader: Room Supporter -> Healthy Living Support Community [https://www.7cups.com/home/healthyliving/]; 35 & Over Community [https://www.7cups.com/home/35plus/]; Positivity & Gratitude Community [https://www.7cups.com/home/gratitude/] {2022.10.25} * Forum Supporter {2022.10.25} * Peer Supporter {2022.10.25} 6) Some useful Links: (thank you @versatileStrings1578 for your help on the update of the list!!) Inside 7Cups: * Listener Topic Library  [https://www.7cupsoftea.com/forum/ListenersOnlyForums_38/ListenerGuidesLibrary_129/ListenerSupportGuidesListTheLibrary_7596/]-----> Manuals on how to handle all types of chats, written by listeners * Listener Suggestion Box [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1klLqfn1ipgbudpxDQsk2tlBxhsOL44z5hnWU865Tig4/viewform] -----> Suggest ways to help improve the site, or how to address any problems you see (For any bugs or glitches, use this separate form [https://www.7cupsoftea.com/supportDesk.php]) * Everything I need to know I learned from my bunny [http://www.7cupsoftea.com/forum/Testimony_50/ListenersTestimony_174/EverythingINeedToKnowILearnedFromMyBunny_9034/] ------> If you ever get disheartened, refresh yourself with some leporine wisdom * Kane’s FAQ [https://www.7cupsoftea.com/forum/ListenersOnlyForums_38/FAQforNewListeners_106/FrequentlyAskedQuestions_11301/] -----> Everything you could possibly ask for in a guide to this site * Farheen’s Guide  [http://www.7cupsoftea.com/forum/ListenersOnlyForums_38/ListenerGuidesLibrary_129/BeginningActiveListeningSomeimportantpoints_2094/1/]-----> The best active listening guide there is. Fact. * Pink’s Distractions [https://www.7cupsoftea.com/forum/AnxietySupportCommunity_53/SocialAnxietySupportSharing_247/PinksAmazinglyAwesomeListofLinksandDistractions_21135/] -----> All different types of self-harm distraction websites and techniques * International Suicide Hotlines  [http://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1qZBw0JyVC8IVeUtXQJtvSMIKV7yI07XHggPGtzZceT0/edit#gid=0]-----> Handy to have close by you when you listen * L [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerSupportGuidesandHowtos_1850/ListenerSupportGuidesMasterList_228279/]istener Support Guides Master List [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerSupportGuidesandHowtos_1850/ListenerSupportGuidesMasterList_228279/] Outside 7Cups: * World Time Buddy [http://www.worldtimebuddy.com/] ----> We are a global community, and we work in a lot of different time zones. Most things are organised in EST (New York’s time zone), and it can be useful to have some help working out what time it is for the people you are talking to, or when events are happening. * Copypastecharacter.com  [http://copypastecharacter.com/symbols] -----> It helps to cheer up drab forum posts ✌ 7. thankyouforlettingmetryingtohelp.youcanbook.me [http://thankyouforlettingmetryingtohelp.youcanbook.me/] -----> This WAS the link to book an appointment with me. I am keeping it here just for the records, BUT I AM NOT USING IT ANYMORE :( 8. I also kept a Diary on 7Cups, which has been deleted. Info I have been given about this, by the person who performed the deletion, may not be allowed to be published here.
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Noasu
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Hello! I'm glad you've found me on 7 Cups of Tea. I'm a trained active listener and I like to support people struggling with mental health, relationships, addictions, grief and loss, lack of motivation, and trauma. If you just what to chit chat we can do that as well. I enjoy running, boxing, gadgets, and learning. I've overcome a lot in life and would like to help by listening to you. If I'm online, then please feel free to start a chat. If I'm offline, then send me a message and we can set up a time to connect. Glad you are here! "If you have come here to help me, you are wasting our time. But if you have come because your liberation is bound up with mine, then let us work together." ― Lilla Watson "Seize the day. Make your lives extraordinary." ― Robin Williams "Be the change that you wish to see in the world.” ― Mahatma Gandhi ''It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything.'' ― Fight Club "Attachment leads to jealousy, the shadow of greed, that is...Train yourself to let go of everything you fear to lose." ― Yoda "Respect their journey" ― Someone wiser than me “When people talk, listen completely. Most people never listen.” ― Ernest Hemingway "Empathy is about standing in someone else's shoes, feeling with his or her heart, seeing with his or her eyes.” ― Daniel Pink "Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him power." ― Abraham Lincoln *How to be a better active listener* http://psychcentral.com/lib/become-a-better-listener-active-listening/0001299 *Noasu's Newbie and Mentee Survival Guide* https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenersOnlyForums_38/TipsampHelpfulHintsforListening_61/NoasusNewbieandMenteeSurvivalGuide_6287/1 *7 Cups of Tea Podcast Youtube Channel* https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqG3h8HeFClnxZgDKF7GH7g/videos *7 Cups of Tea Podcast Vimeo Channel* http://vimeo.com/user36337071/videos *7 Cups of Tea Podcast Apples iTunes Page* https://itunes.apple.com/ca/podcast/7-cups-of-tea-podcast/id961345835?mt=2 *7 Cups of Tea RSS Feed* (Updates and downloads Podcast directly to your devices automatically) http://feeds.feedburner.com/7CupsOfTeaPodcast (audio only feed) http://feeds.feedburner.com/7CupsOfTeaPodcastYoutube (video feed) http://feeds.feedburner.com/7CupsOfTeaPodcastVimeo (video feed) *7 Cups of Tea Podcast Forum* https://www.7cups.com/forum/7CupsofTeaPodcast_75/ *Listener Guides : Library Forums* https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenersOnlyForums_38/LISTENERTOPICGUIDESLIBRARY_129/ListenerSupportGuidesListTheLibrary_7596/ * 7 Cups Movie Night Forum* http://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenersOnlyForums_38/7CupsofTeaMovieNight_337/
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CallMeFaith
L Explorer 10 302
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Hello Reader! My name is not very exciting, so you can call me Faith. I'm here to listen to all of you who feel, ignored, upset, or just downright awful. I cannot promise much but what I do guarantee is this; you will make it through. I'm experienced in many affairs of hardship and despair. Some, through my own personal experience, and others through an onlookers eyes. While my past may not have been a happy one, it has helped to make me who I am today and I am thankful that I now retain the prospect of hope. This is what I hope to pass on to some of you who are still traversing your way through the harder parts of life. If I am not proof that things get better, then I don't know what is. "Eᴠᴇʀʏᴏɴᴇ ɪs ᴀ ɢᴇɴɪᴜs, ʙᴜᴛ ɪғ ʏᴏᴜ ᴊᴜᴅɢᴇ ᴀ ғɪsʜ ᴏɴ ɪᴛ's ᴀʙɪʟɪᴛʏ ᴛᴏ ᴄʟɪᴍʙ ᴀ ᴛʀᴇᴇ, ᴛʜᴇɴ ɪᴛ ᴡɪʟʟ ʟɪᴠᴇ ɪᴛ's ᴡʜᴏʟᴇ ʟɪғᴇ ʙᴇʟɪᴇᴠɪɴɢ ɪᴛ ɪs sᴛᴜᴘɪᴅ" – Aʟʙᴇʀᴛ Eɪɴsᴛᴇɪɴ "Bᴇ ᴡʜᴏ ʏᴏᴜ ᴀʀᴇ, ᴀɴᴅ sᴀʏ ʜᴏᴡ ʏᴏᴜ ғᴇᴇʟ, ʙᴇᴄᴀᴜsᴇ ᴛʜᴏsᴇ ᴡʜᴏ ᴍɪɴᴅ ᴅᴏɴ'ᴛ ᴍᴀᴛᴛᴇʀ ᴀɴᴅ ᴛʜᴏsᴇ ᴡʜᴏ ᴍᴀᴛᴛᴇʀ ᴅᴏɴ'ᴛ ᴍɪɴᴅ" – Dʀ Sᴇᴜss "I’ᴠᴇ ʟᴇᴀʀɴᴇᴅ ᴛʜᴀᴛ ᴘᴇᴏᴘʟᴇ ᴡɪʟʟ ғᴏʀɢᴇᴛ ᴡʜᴀᴛ ʏᴏᴜ sᴀɪᴅ, ᴘᴇᴏᴘʟᴇ ᴡɪʟʟ ғᴏʀɢᴇᴛ ᴡʜᴀᴛ ʏᴏᴜ ᴅɪᴅ, ʙᴜᴛ ᴘᴇᴏᴘʟᴇ ᴡɪʟʟ ɴᴇᴠᴇʀ ғᴏʀɢᴇᴛ ʜᴏᴡ ʏᴏᴜ ᴍᴀᴅᴇ ᴛʜᴇᴍ ғᴇᴇʟ" – Mᴀʏᴀ Aɴɢᴇʟᴏᴜ
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Baze
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Hey, I'm Justin. I've been on this site for a while now. I know how painful life can be and I know what it brings. I myself have been through some rough times but I've never let that stop me. You see, I'm a firm believer. What do I believe in? I believe in life, in the human condition. I believe that we are all here for a reason. That we aren't without purpose. I believe that to live life you must live all of it, not just the tidbits of pleasure and happiness. Sometimes life isn't fair. Sometimes we find ourselves in the darkest corners, far away from the light. Perhaps it's the case that we can create our own light. That we can find a way through the troubles of life together. I cannot claim to be able to help everyone. However, I can claim this. I will do all that I can to help you. It would be my pleasure to bring you peace and hope to your life. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Sometimes I may be unavailable to chat. If this is the case I do apologize, I can tell you however that if you allow me the time and your patience that I will get back to you and we will make something work. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- About Me: I'm Justin. I'm 28 years old and I'm originally from Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. Currently I am living in North Carolina though. Outside of my life as a listener I am a college student, a writer, and many other things. The thing I enjoy most in life is meeting people. It brings me great pleasure and happiness to socialize with people. I like to learn about the different ways that people live. It gives me structure for my perspective. I find that the more people I meet, the more I understand the bigger picture of our existence. Outside of that, I enjoy writing which I previously mentioned, playing video games, and television. I watch quite a few series on Netflix, Showtime, Starz, HBO, you name it. TV is one of my passions. As a person, I try to live a life without judgments. It can be hard sometimes but I consider myself to be fairly open. I've never been too great at describing or introducing myself though, I try to let my interactions with people dictate to them who I am. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I hope that you have enjoyed my profile. If you would like to talk about anything at all, please don't hesitate to message me. As always, stay well.
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