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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

tommy
L Virtuoso 7 560
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hello, i'm tommy •────────────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•────────────• a little bit about me   i'm an early 20s career driven, lowercase obsessed and 7 cups enthusiast from england. i am most passionate about creating a safe and inclusive space for people to express themselves. unfortunately, i am not taking on member chat requests right now. please connect with another listener here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] 🩵 •─────────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•─────────• my roles @ 7 cups ambassador as communities/forum ambassador, i oversee leadership applications [https://www.7cups.com/forum/7cupsleadership/SubcommunitiesInformation_2314/UpdatedSubcommunityTrackLeadershipRolesMasterpost2023_289838/], engagement, moderation and quality across the forums. do you need an update on your application or have you got a question about the forums? drop me a message! safety patrol team leader i help lead the safety patrol and safety patrol outreach teams. let me know if you see an inappropriate profile or would like info on joining the team! •─────────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•─────────•
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heathermarie95
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 Hello! My name is Heather and helping others has always been a passion of mine. When I accept 1-on-1 chats, I mainly accept loneliness & anxiety chats as those two topics I have much life experience in.  Unfortunately, mental health care is expensive and I understand the struggle. Even though I volunteer and can't provide any advice or solutions, I want members to feel at ease knowing they have someone who cares and will listen and not have to stress about paying a professional.  Online Activity: Tuesdays Wednesdays Thursdays  I do not accept sexual health or inappropriate chats.   I do accept casual chats  Availability 1 on 1 chat: occasionally accept chats as I work 5/6 days a week. Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation] Click here to apply for the Appreciation [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfo8Myq7_mZ3_lt0AtTwRf4-7g3Fvy42oz3h-IXGS-C6Slu7g/viewform] team [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfo8Myq7_mZ3_lt0AtTwRf4-7g3Fvy42oz3h-IXGS-C6Slu7g/viewform] & to spread smiles! [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfo8Myq7_mZ3_lt0AtTwRf4-7g3Fvy42oz3h-IXGS-C6Slu7g/viewform] Current roles:  Send me a message if you have a question about my current roles 🌈 Community Mentor - P&G 🌈 Appreciation Team Project Leader (Star Leader)  🌈 AL Team Co-Leader  🌈 Quality Mentor Leader 🌈 Academy Mentor - Internship & CDM 🌈  Chat Support  🌈 Care Team 🌈 Welcome Committee 🌈  Project Agent - PAT, Kahoot Sessions, AL. Updated: August 22 2024
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ASilentObserver
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"You are always one decision away from a totally different life." Hello everyone, I'm known as Obs and I'm one of the members of the Community Management Team [https://www.7cups.com/about/communityGuidelines.php].  Here are some resources in case you need them -  If you are unable to see any group support rooms, probably you would need to meet some requirements. Check them here! [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/ASilentObserversOffice_2008/WeeklyGroupSupportLetterWeekofFeb10_217277/]  Join us in various group discussions. check the community calendar for the schedule and details.  [https://www.7cups.com/home/communityCalendar.php] Group Support Frequently Asked Questions [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/ObsDesk_2008/FrequentlyAskedQuestionsGroupSupport_215692/] Weekly Communi. a listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SafetyKnowledgeat7Cups_181/CommunityModeratorWeeklySchedule_1640/CommunityModScheduleWeekofJan06_214569/] If you are a listener and need some Chat Support, check this resource [https://www.google.com/url?q=https://docs.google.com/document/d/1jf7BqGrwkY0zFhU3PKaAaRVCoEd6O2TD0vNhuiRHRD8/edit?usp%3Dsharing&sa=D&ust=1581950130116000&usg=AFQjCNFZd4GUNuPdJ94r__2tXhDNc9oL5Q]  Please feel free to PM me with any questions or doubts regarding our community and roles. I am here with you to help with the best of my efforts while we keep building our community better each day with team efforts.  I am unable to take chat requests right now as I am unable to respond timely. I request you to connect with other available listeners here-  Browse Listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]. We all are here with you to listen to and support you.  Do not say, "I am having a bad day." Say, "I am having a character-building day." - Les Brown Have a wonderful day and thanks for stopping by!!
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kindheartedLily
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✨Unavailable to take on new member chats✨  Members who I've supported over some time, I love hearing updates from you and am happy to see your messages. Please note that I am CURRENTLY UNAVAILABLE FOR LIVE CHATS  and will only be able to respond asynchronously. It may take me a few days to respond to messages, but I will respond when I can. I appreciate your patience and understanding. 🔷🔷🔷 If you need support, please reach out to another listener by clicking here to browse listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/].  ------------------------- Hi and welcome! I'm so glad you're here💙 I'm a verified and trained active listener on 7 Cups who is here to listen and offer support. As someone who has struggled with their own mental health, I understand the value of having someone to talk to during tough times. I use my education, along with my own lived experience, to support and guide others on their journey. I'm here to listen with zero judgment. You are not alone 💜  🔶 My roles on 7 Cups🔶 Lead Team Leader of the Listener Coaching Team Quality Mentor Adult-Teen Listener Coach Chat Support Safety Patrol Team Teen Transition Mentor Adult-Teen Listener Verified Listeners Team  Team Lightship **This is a great tool to convert GMT to your time zone: https://greenwichmeantime.com/time-gadgets/time-zone-converter/ [https://greenwichmeantime.com/time-gadgets/time-zone-converter/] ------------------------- Status Green: This means I am online and available to start a conversation. Please don't hesitate to reach out and message me.   Orange: This means I'm online but am busy talking with other members and am unable to take more chats. You are more than welcome to send me a message and I will respond as soon as I can. Red: This means I'm offline. Please don't hesitate to message me and I will respond when I am back online. 
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EvelyneRose
L Epitome 18 1285
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Hello! I chose the picture of an apple because it represents to me growth and potential. The apple can grow to become the best apple it can be. I think we all have potential, and I also believe that most people are not solely good or bad- we are a combination of light and dark. That's just human nature. I've been here since 2013, and I am now in my 30s. I have always been told I'm a good listener and person to come to. People have come to me years after talking to them because they remembered I was someone to confide in. I like to think of myself as open minded, non judgmental, and compassionate. I try to be honest, but tactfully so. I find the best people in my life are those that tell me what I need to hear, not what I want to hear, and that is something I practice with others. I hope to be here for you, and I will cheerlead you on. I cannot give advice, but I will be a support for you. I take casual chats, so even if you're just bored or need someone to talk to and don't have a pressing issue, I am happy to talk to you.  My strengths lie in the subjects I have listed on my profile, so I will not be the best fit for everyone (and that is okay!). I hope everyone can get the help they need from whoever it is, even if it's not me. If I cannot help you, I will let you know and try to connect you with someone that can. I do the best with chats that can be asynchronous, as my schedule varies and I don't want to promise I can sit down for a real time chat if I cannot. That is unfair to both of us time wise, and time is a precious thing. Updated March 23, 2023 I have joined the admin team as a Quality Specialist for the volunteer community. I am still involved in all the things below, but as I am now involved widely across the site in different ways, if you need to know who to talk to regarding any of the below activities, please PM me and I will direct you to who you should talk to, whether it be me or someone else. If you have questions about anything Quality related, please PM me!
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AnnaSilverberg
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🔔Currently not accepting member chats unless referred🔔 💙 Please find another listener: here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] 💙   .·:*¨Welcome¨*:·.  ✨ I am Anna ✨ 💙 A Verified Listener here on 7Cups 💙 • ───── • ✧ • ───── • 𖥸 • ───── • ✧ • ───── •  ✨💙✨ We all have a history, different stories and experiences. 🌿 💚I’m here to provide support and listen💚  I don’t give advice because that's not what I'm here to do  But getting advice from others isn’t what we truly need  ⭐️We talk, that is the path to our own solution ⭐️ 〰 Healing isn’t linear 〰 ✨💙✨ ✨  •··•··• •··•··• •··•··• •··•··• • ───── • 𖥸 • ───── • •··•··• •··•··• •··•··• •··•··• My Status here at 7Cups: Ambassador - New Listener & Quality Mentor Team ATL (Adult Teen Listener) Chat Room Mentor Chat Room Moderator - Global Chat Support Peer Supporter Smile Spreader Quality Mentor (Adult & Teen) Quality Mentor Leader for:  Anonymous Evaluations & Listener Coaching Team 🔆  I'm also a graduate from the: 🎓 Quality Listening Program  Leadership Development Program - With honors Group Development Program - With honors  ✧ ⋆ ───── ⋆ ───── ⋆☆⋅✧⋅☆⋆ ───── ⋆ ───── ⋆ ✧  Silly badges acquired in chatrooms for fun: Knower of Fonts * Glitter Spreader * * Busy Bee ✧ •············• ♡ •············•.✧.•············• ♡ •············• ✧  💖 Twin Brian 💖 🚀 @Jenna 🚀 ✧ • ───── • 𖥸 • ───── • ✧ ✨ Listener Twin ✨ 🌈 @YourCaringConfidant 💚 ✧ • ───── • 𖥸 • ───── • ✧ 💠Kindness Twin💠 💎 @Kristynsmama 💜 ✧ •············• ♡ •············•.✧.•············• ♡ •············• ✧  Chats I’m comfortable with: ADHD, Anxiety, Autism Disorder Chronic Pain, Domestic Violence Family Stress, Financial Stress General Mental Health Getting Unstuck, Managing Emotions Obsessive Compulsive Disorder PTSD – Trauma, Self-Esteem,  Work Stress 💙 🚫Chats that I don't take for personal reasons/lack of knowledge:🚫 .Loneliness. .Men's Issues. .Life threatening illnesses. .Grief. .Relationship Stress. ✧*⠈⠂⠄⠄⠂⠁⠁⠂⠄⠄⠂⠁⠁⠂⠂⠁⠈⠂⠄⠄⠂⠁⠁⠂⠄⠄⠂⠁⠁⠂⠂⠁⠈⠂⠄⠄⠂⠁⠁*✧ ✦⋆☽ ⠁⠈⠂⠄⠄⠂⠁⠁⠂⠄⠄⠂⠁⠁⠂⠂⠁⠈⠂⠄⠄⠂⠁⠁⠂⠄⠄⠂⠁⠁⠂☾ ⋆✦ My chats are ⏰ one hour ⏰ long. They can also be offline chats, depending on agreement.  🔔Green: I'm online, feel free to send me a message.  🔕Orange: I am busy, but there's a chance I might be able to reply. 📭Red: I'm offline. Replies can vary, but I do my best to reply as soon as possible.   ·✦•············•✦•·············•✦ ·˚°◦❤◦°˚· ✦•·············•✦•············•✦· 
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Shadow
L Connoisseur 9 528
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**I’m unable to take new member chats at this time** Hello! Welcome to my bio ♡ You can call me Shadow. I'm here to offer a safe/nonjudgmental place to talk and I will do my best to support you. My goal is to give you that space and try to help you through whatever it is you have going on. I will not offer advice, as it can be harmful and only you know your situation well enough to make decisions on it, but I would be more than happy to help you come up with ideas on how to cope with things and manage your situation! I am so proud of you for reaching out <3 My listening style is more listening rather than talking. I am here to be your safe space and sounding board as well as be someone to stand in your corner and cheer you on. We can come up with ideas together to help improve your situation but ultimately you will need to make the final decisions for yourself. If you feel like I would be a good listener for you feel free to reach out! My response time is typically within 24-72 hours ♡ **Please note that I am only able to take support chats for 30-60 minutes at at time. Thank you. Topics I am comfortable with: ~ LGBTQ+, self-harm, PTSD/trauma and BPD. Topics I am *not* comfortable with: ~ Active SH/suicide (7cups is not a crisis resource, if you are experiencing this please reach out to crisis resources ♡︎), sexual health/sexual chats, religion/spirituality, relationships stress. My roles here: * * Global Moderator  * Chatroom Mentor * Chat Support * Peer Support * ML for Anonymous Evaluations * Quality Mentor * Doorkeeper ꕥ Have an amazing day! ꕥ
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Harsvin
L Paragon 11 4201
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Hi, my name is Harsvin. Thank you for stumbling upon my profile. I’m a listener since 2015, and it’s been a long journey on this site that has helped to shape me into a compassionate and caring individual who truly understands the importance of being there for someone. I’m currently a Quality Ambassador for the AL Team Click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ActiveListeningTestsListenerQuizzes_2102/ActiveListeningTrainingsTestsWhatYouShouldKnow_56907/] to learn more about Active Listening Tests You can check the updates threads of each test here AL 1 Updates [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ActiveListeningTestsListenerQuizzes_2102/ActiveListening1Updates_294348/?post=3237880], AL2 Updates [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/General_2422/2023ActiveListeningTest2GradingUpdates_300791/], AL3 Updates [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/General_2422/2023ActiveListeningTest3GradingUpdates_300792/], and AL4 Updates [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/General_2422/2023ActiveListeningTest4GradingUpdates_300794/] to know when badges have been last updated. Feel free to send me a message if you have any questions to ask regarding Active Listening Tests, or need guidance on your ongoing chats. It's my pleasure to help.
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soulsings
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Sorry if you are a member or guest looking to chat, I am not currently accepting new personal requests for chats. You can browse for a listener. https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ . You may also find these helpful https://www.7cups.com/connect/groupChatrooms.php     https://www.7cups.com/supportGuides/selfHelpGuides.php Some people find that mindfulness helps them cope. The video Resource Library https://www.7cups.com/forum/mindfulness/ResourceLibrary_1062/2016presentMindfulnessVideos_72071/ If you might consider a paid text therapy on 7cups, then this may be of interest https://www.7cups.com/forum/therapy/General_2432/ExcitingNewFeaturefor7CupsOnlineTherapyandCoaching_319430/ The other resource is various therapy topics  https://www.7cups.com/experts/catalog/topics/ All the best to you. Again sorry I cannot help you but my personal workload does not allow openings for that at this time.  
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KristenHR
L Paragon 7 4552
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Do to my schedule, I am no longer taking on individual chats except those I already am in individual chats with.  If you want to seek out a listener, please use this link:  https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ I love life.  I enjoy helping.  My focus is recovery from abuse and sexual trauma, eating disorders and dissociation.  I have interests in university internships and career development.  I am a Christian and that gives me strength. If you are wanting faith-based support, please let me know. I know that for some individuals, Christians have been very hurtful. If you are not a Christian, I'm not here to judge or impose my spiritual beliefs - I'm here to listen. I will not talk to you about God unless you ask to talk about faith.  I do not take theological chats. https://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/converter.html?p1=179 - Time Zone Converter:  Eastern Time is New York time. My involvement with 7 Cups: Eating Disorder Community Verified Listener Team
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SnowTabby
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"Perfection is Imperfection" ___________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Unavailable for Member Chats!! I'll be on a semi-self care break. If you have a Care Team question or need help locating a resource, please reach out! I will do my best to respond quickly.  Merry Holidays 🍁 ____________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Hello Lovelies 🌙 Reaching out to someone is a hard step, but reaching out to a community is even harder. Whatever the reason you are here, I am proud of you. When I joined 7Cups in 2019, I was in a difficult spot mentally and wanted to share my experience by listening. Growing up, my main goal was to get people to smile in the difficult moments and I still believe that is one of the best goals I can put on myself. However, I understand people pleasing can come at a cost so I want to balance that with self-care.  A few months into listening, I realized I was nowhere near that balance, so I took a break. I came back last year to dedicate my time to contributing positively to this community while improving my own skills. Leadership Roles I started out with 7Cups Academy Leadership Program that led me to Care Team. I worked myself from Guide to Quality Mentor. Then from Quality Mentor to Quality Leader. Then, finally, to Ambassador. My path lead me to supporting Listeners but I will never forget that I am here to make Members experience as comfortable and warm as possible. You are worth it.
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InternalAcceptance
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I'm not currently accepting new member chats unless referred right now. Please search for a Listener here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] or connect with a live listener. I do not take relationship chats. Quality Ambassador Adult-Teen Listener Anonymous Evaluation Team Ambassador Doorkeeper Global Chatroom Moderator Global Forum Moderator Peer Support Quality Mentor Safety Patrol Team Member SPOT Team Member I'm glad that you have found this site are are reaching out for support through difficult times. I am a trained active listener and am able to offer support most effectively for those who are going through addiction, anxiety, domestic violence, eating disorders, grief, and trauma. Some of the things that I enjoy the most are reading, talking walks through the park, hiking, yoga, and writing. I've overcome many obstacles in life and would like to help by listening to you. If I'm online please don't hesitate to reach out. If I happen to be offline, you are always welcome to send me a message and we can set up a time to talk. I'm glad that you are here.
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