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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

ASilentObserver
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"You are always one decision away from a totally different life." Hello everyone, I'm known as Obs and I'm one of the members of the Community Management Team [https://www.7cups.com/about/communityGuidelines.php].  Here are some resources in case you need them -  If you are unable to see any group support rooms, probably you would need to meet some requirements. Check them here! [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/ASilentObserversOffice_2008/WeeklyGroupSupportLetterWeekofFeb10_217277/]  Join us in various group discussions. check the community calendar for the schedule and details.  [https://www.7cups.com/home/communityCalendar.php] Group Support Frequently Asked Questions [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/ObsDesk_2008/FrequentlyAskedQuestionsGroupSupport_215692/] Weekly Communi. a listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SafetyKnowledgeat7Cups_181/CommunityModeratorWeeklySchedule_1640/CommunityModScheduleWeekofJan06_214569/] If you are a listener and need some Chat Support, check this resource [https://www.google.com/url?q=https://docs.google.com/document/d/1jf7BqGrwkY0zFhU3PKaAaRVCoEd6O2TD0vNhuiRHRD8/edit?usp%3Dsharing&sa=D&ust=1581950130116000&usg=AFQjCNFZd4GUNuPdJ94r__2tXhDNc9oL5Q]  Please feel free to PM me with any questions or doubts regarding our community and roles. I am here with you to help with the best of my efforts while we keep building our community better each day with team efforts.  I am unable to take chat requests right now as I am unable to respond timely. I request you to connect with other available listeners here-  Browse Listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]. We all are here with you to listen to and support you.  Do not say, "I am having a bad day." Say, "I am having a character-building day." - Les Brown Have a wonderful day and thanks for stopping by!!
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FinleyTews
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UNAVAILABLE TO NEW MEMBERS Pfp gifted by dear Astraeuss! 🖤🩶🤍💜
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PoliteOcean
L Paragon 3 2139
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I CURRENTLY DO NOT TAKE CHATS AT THIS TIME. HOWEVER, PLEASE FEEL FREE TO BROWSE FOR ANOTHER ONE OF OUR MANY WONDERFUL & AVAILABLE LISTENERS. "BROWSE LISTENERS HERE" [http://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]   (My Pm's are always open if you have a question or are in need of help or assistance "outside" of chats.)~  Hi and welcome to 7cups! I’m PoliteOcean~ (But, You can call me "OCEAN")~ I'm a Spouse, a Parent, & also Licensed in the Healthcare Field.  I’m also a Fitness Instructor with a passion for Dance & ZUMBA Fitness. I am here to listen, support and not judge. I cannot solve all problems but I've gone through many of my own personal experiences so perhaps I can help. If I'm away, please leave me a message. ⭐️LISTENING STRENGTHS⭐️ *Family Stress *Healthy Living  *Parenting ⭐️CURRENTLY ACTIVE ROLES⭐️ * COMMUNITY MENTOR LEADER * HEALTHY LIVING TEAM LEADER & SUPPORT ROOM MENTOR *ADULT CHATROOM MENTOR & CHAT SUPPORT  *FORUM MENTOR  *Group Moderator *Discussion Trainer *Verified Listening Team  *Door Keeper ⭐️👯‍♂️ MY LISTENING TWINS 👯‍♂️ ⭐️ @HopieRemi @Vivelespatates  @MusicalMagic (R.I.P.) 🙏🏼 
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amiablePeace77
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I'm sorry but I'm not able to take any 1:1 chats other than the regulars.  If you are looking for a listener please browse here https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ Hello,  I’m  Ami,  a verified listener on 7cups. My support will be confidential, without any judgement. There are no topics which make me feel uncomfortable and I will do everything I can to make you feel welcome, safe and understood.  7 Cups is not equipped to support crisis situations. If you are in crisis please reach out to a crisis line for appropriate support. Here are some sourced crisis lines and resources to help you: * * (U.S.) The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline [https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/] at 1-800-273-8255 * Crisis Text Lin [https://www.crisistextline.org/texting-in]e * * (U.S.) Text HOME to 741741 * (Canada) Text HOME to 686868 * International Association for Suicide Prevention [https://www.iasp.info/resources/Crisis_Centres/] * * Canada call 1-833-456-4566or text 45645 Crisis Services Canada [http://www.crisisservicescanada.ca/]  * UK * * Call Samaritans [https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help/contact-samaritan/talk-us-phone/] 116 123 * Call Hopeline [https://papyrus-uk.org/hopelineuk/] 080020068204141 or text 0778620209697 * Australia Lifeline Crisis Support  [https://www.lifeline.org.au/get-help/topics/lifeline-services] call  13 11 14 * India click the link to find a local crisis line with Befrienders India [http://befriendersindia.net/helpline-details.php] My listening times are Monday to Friday  as per arrangement , usually my listening time will be 45 to 60 min. once a week or 2 x 30 min. twice a week. A few things about me: Some of my favorite activities are exercising,  yoga,  meditation,  nature walks and cooking. My approach to life is holistic, keeping the mind, body and spirits balanced. I consider living in harmony with nature  very important. I had many challenges in my life and learned to cope and overcome them and would be glad to support you to achieve the same.  Volunteering here on 7 cups  means a lot to be,   I am very passionate about helping others. I want to acknowledge the courage that it takes to reach out, this is not easy, but you made the first step. Please feel free to message me any time, I promise I will get back to you as soon as I can.
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vivelespatates
L Epitome 10 2680
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Upcoming sessions https://www.7cups.com/forum/communityCalendar.php  if you need to edit or cancel an event already published, or any other need (repeats, pictures, titles or descriptions, etc) related to community calendar, send me a message. I answer within 24-48 hours. ------------------------- English will follow, please read the profile before to send a message! (I normally take only French Chats) ------------------------- FRANCAIS  Bonjour! Je suis patate! Je suis un écoutant "vérifié" et je suis ici pour vous apporter écoute et support dans les sujets suivants: - Anxiété, stress, attaques de panique (expérience personnelle) - Autisme et TSA  (expérience professionnelle) - Automutilation (expérience personnelle, j'ai complètement arrêté il y a plusieurs années) - Vivre avec un handicap physique - problèmes de santé physique (expérience personnelle) - maladies chroniques et/ou dégénératives (expérience personnelle) - Intimidation, taxage, discrimination (expérience personnelle et professionnelle) - Diversité culturelle (expérience personnelle et professionnelle) - LGBTQA+ (expérience personnelle) - Gestion des émotions (expérience personnelle) - Parentalité (expérience professionnelle) - Gestion du poids, adopter un mode de vie sain. (Je prône l'alimentation intuitive, pas les diètes) (expérience personnelle) - Victimes d'abus, Victimes de crimes (expérience personnelle) - Expérience traumatiques, État/Trouble de Stress Post-Traumatique (ESPT/TSPT) (expérience personnelle, je me suis rétablie) - Travail autonome, lancement d'une entreprise (expérience personnelle) - Troubles du comportement alimentaire (expérience personnelle, je me suis rétablie) - Stress financier (expérience personnelle) - Vie étudiante (expérience personnelle, je suis étudiante) - Ados vivant en familles d'acceuil/foyer de groupe/centre jeunesse, ou adultes qui y ont vécu enfant (expérience personnelle et professionnelle) Je NE prend PAS les clavardages sur les sujets suivants: - Relations  - Ruptures amoureuses et divorce - Santé sexuelle et tout ce qui touche la sexualité (excepté les victimes d'abus sexuels qui sont les bienvenues) - Rencontres (dating) - Problèmes "de garçon/d'homme ou de fille/femme" J'accepte les nouveaux membres, adolescents et adultes, tant pour du court terme, long terme et check-ins. Du au nombre de chats inappropriés, les requêtes hors-ligne ou sans sujet spécifiés ne seront pas répondu. Merci de précisé votre besoin et sujet dans votre premier message. ------------------------- English My English is limited to an intermediate level so I usually don't take adult chats in English. If you have been referred to me by an other listener with my permission, or crossed me from forums or chatrooms, feel free to message and specify! ;)  Otherwise, I accept teens for English chats on the following topics only:  - Anxiety, stress (personal experience) - panic attacks (personal experience, recovered) - Autism and ASD (working experience) - Self-harm (personal experience, fully recovered for years) - Living with a physical disability - physical health problems  (personal experience) - chronic and/or degenerative diseases (personal experience) - Bullying, taxing, discrimination (personal experience) - Cultural diversity (personal experience + professional experience) - LGBTQA+ (personal experience) - Emotional management (personal experience) - Weight management, adopting a healthy lifestyle. (I advocate intuitive eating, not diets) (personal experience) - Abuse victims, Crime victims (personal experience) - Traumatic experiences, Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) (personal experience, recovered) - Self-employment, starting a business (personal experience) - Eating disorders (personal experience, fully recovered) - Financial stress (personal experience) - Student life (personal experience, I'm still a student) - Parenting and familial (professional experience) - Foster care (personal experience and professional experience) If you have been referred to me by an other listener with my permission for a different topic, or crossed me from forums or chatrooms, feel free to message and specify! ;)  I DO NOT accept chats on the following topics: - Relationships (including boy/girl friend) - except parent-child or school which are welcome  - Breakups and divorces - Sexual health and any other sexual issue (except victims of crime) - "Boy/man or girl/woman" issues I accept new members, teens and adults for both short term and long term. Due to the number of inappropriate chats, offline requests without a specified topic will not be answered. ------------------------- Mentorat J'accepte les nouveaux mentorés.  Projets spécifiques pour lesquels j'offre un plus grand accompagnement, tant aux membres qu'aux écoutants:  * Group Support Mentor* (Support Team Leader for Healthy Living)   * Support Room Mentor (in charge of Tockify)  Ça signifie que je peux vous aider à planifier, organiser et animer des discussions de groupe dans les canaux, joindre une équipe qui anime régulièrement des discussions, ou mettre à jour vos évènements sur notre calendrier communautaire. (Pour le mentorat réservé aux écoutants, visitez mon profil de mentor) ------------------------- Healthy Living Team Are you a member or listener interested in leading healthy living discussions?!   The healthy living team is recruiting new discussion leaders to help members to develop good healthy habits, get support and motivation, and discuss topics in relation to their health. We have a lot of approved discussions available for you to lead!  If you are interested, message me in English or French and specify its about HL team or +Click here for more information [https://www.7cups.com/forum/HealthyLiving_141/HealthyLivingAnnouncements_828/LovebeingaleaderindiscussionsHealthyLivingteamrecruit_280892/]!  ------------------------- Twin My listener twins are @Jenna , @PoliteOcean and @HopieRemi <3 ------------------------- Group Support Mentor in charge of Tockify Calendar.  If you notice any issue in Tockify Calendar, including using it, creating, editing, canceling or deleting a session or repeated weekly event; or want to inform about events not taking place as planned, you are welcome to message me and I will reply within 24 to 48 hours. Upcoming sessions https://www.7cups.com/forum/communityCalendar.php  Help with planning, preparing or discussions. No matter if you are a member or listener, I can help you with that! :)  For mentoring specific to listeners, visit my mentor bio.
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Harsvin
L Paragon 11 4201
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Hi, my name is Harsvin. Thank you for stumbling upon my profile. I’m a listener since 2015, and it’s been a long journey on this site that has helped to shape me into a compassionate and caring individual who truly understands the importance of being there for someone. I’m currently a Quality Ambassador for the AL Team Click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ActiveListeningTestsListenerQuizzes_2102/ActiveListeningTrainingsTestsWhatYouShouldKnow_56907/] to learn more about Active Listening Tests You can check the updates threads of each test here AL 1 Updates [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ActiveListeningTestsListenerQuizzes_2102/ActiveListening1Updates_294348/?post=3237880], AL2 Updates [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/General_2422/2023ActiveListeningTest2GradingUpdates_300791/], AL3 Updates [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/General_2422/2023ActiveListeningTest3GradingUpdates_300792/], and AL4 Updates [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/General_2422/2023ActiveListeningTest4GradingUpdates_300794/] to know when badges have been last updated. Feel free to send me a message if you have any questions to ask regarding Active Listening Tests, or need guidance on your ongoing chats. It's my pleasure to help.
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rebecca947
L Sage 12 1286
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Unfortunately, I have stopped volunteering here. I may be back, I may not. :) - 22/04/2022 Hi, I'm Rebecca! I'm here to listen to any issues you have. As the saying goes, a burden shared is a burden halved. I'm here to take the other half. :) My Self-Harm Recovery discussion for adults is on every Wednesday at 5pm-6pm ET!  I DO NOT take sexual or inappropriate chats.
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niamh333
L Genius 9 2638
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Hello :) I'm Niamh and I'm glad you've found your way to my profile on 7CupsOfTea :) I'm a 31 year old female who lives in the UK.  I am a trained active listener who loves to help people as I've been helped many times in my life. I have just graduated as a fully qualified Person-Centred counsellor/psychotherapist! However, I am here to support you in the role of Active Listener so cannot give advice or make diagnoses <3 I am happy to talk about anything at all bothering you and help in any way I can! I have particular expertise when it comes to matters of: anxiety depression self harm sleeping issues bullying family and relationships work stress LGBTQ+/GSRD issues neurodivergence However there is no matter I wouldn't happily discuss with you. My roles on 7Cups include: *Peer Supporter *Chat Support *LGBTQ+ Community Mod *Global Mod *Quality Mentor *Listener Coaching Team *SPOT Team  *Chatroom Mentor Please get in touch!
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Helping2findaway
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Welcome to MY PROFILE!! :D  I understand that life gets challenging  Everyone needs someone to vent to   You and I CANNOT Surivive ALONE, but we NEED each other For SUPPORT, CARE and COMFORT SOMETIMES we just NEED someone to LISTEN  to US 7Cups is the place to FIND a compassionate listener Being an Active listener, holding various roles since 2014 has equipped me for such.  
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Amphios
L Genius 13 1595
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Quality Mentor || Active Listening Grading Team Greetings, I'm so glad that you've reached out for help. I know that life can seem like a complicated journey sometimes. During this time, it is not unusual to feel overwhelmed, confused or frustrated. My goal is to provide comfort and care for you as well as a safe and non-judgmental space to talk about everything and anything. Sometimes we just want someone to listen, and even that alone can be therapeutic. I am willing to listen to you and help you understand your thoughts and feelings better. You don't have to feel you are alone on the journey. Previous roles:  Community Mentor Leader || Forum Mentor || Teen Transition Mentor || Group Support Moderator || Doorkeeper || Verified Listeners Team || Peer Supporter || Project Agent || Welcoming Team
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Artemidesia
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Hello everyone! First of all I would like to welcome you all to our community and congratulate each one of you for reaching out. I know it takes a lot of courage to reach out for help. I'm so glad that you took your first step.   My roles/involvement Adult Listener This means that I can provide support to everyone on this site who is above 18. Peer Supporter Feel free to contact me after a chat that leaves you feeling overwhelmed or emotionally drained. Forum Supporter I am a forum supporter in the Mindfulness [https://www.7cups.com/home/mindfulness/] and Internship [https://www.7cups.com/home/interns/] sub-community Feed Leader I am a part of the feed team and the feed leader for the LGBTQ+/MOGII [https://www.7cups.com/home/lgbtq/]community Forum Mentor I am a forum mentor in the LGBTQ+/MOGII [http://www.7cups.com/home/lgbtq/]support community. This means that I can edit, delete or move posts. I ensure that the forums are a save enviornment which promote friendliness and support. Feel free to contact me in case you find any inappropriate posts.  Intern Graduate I completed my internship with honors. You can check out my honors project (about OCD) here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/OCDBFRBCommunity_165/ObsessiveCompulsiveDisorderSupport_1097/ObsessiveCompulsiveDisorder_79839/]. Intern Buddy Interns- feel free to PM me if you have any queries, feel overwhelmed, or just want a friend to talk to regarding your internship. Verifier's Team This means that I can do mock chats with the listeners to help them get verified. Feel free to PM me if you want to get verified.   About myself: I am a psychology student and I'm here to support and talk to everyone who needs a friend. I am not a professional but I am a good listener and a great friend. You can count on me. I am not here to judge you. I am here to make you feel better. I love to make people smile as it gives me happiness. *You can PM me anytime and I'll respond as soon as possible* I welcome almost* all sorts of chats 😃 7cups is a non-judgmental zone and we are here to help people who are struggling with something. *I do not welcome chats that contain sexually explicit content. Please refrain from any kind of flirting/sexting. (Sexual health issues are always welcome.)   A huge shout-out to the following people: @Racat - My listener twinnie sis who is always there for me to encourage and motivate me. I seriously don't think that I would be here on 7cups without her constant support. @sweetMango91 - My other listener twin and best-friend on 7cups who is always there to cheer me up when I feel low. They are a wonderful person and if you don't know them, you definitely should! @neverendingDancer10 - The most compassionate and loving person that I have met on 7cups. She is surely someone who can cheer you up with her humour and wit. She makes sure that our forums always have a fun element to them!
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Emily619
L Marvel 14 2056
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This is a test, a test to see if you are a human. Please note if something applies to you: Have you ever eaten a booger long past your childhood? Have you ever made a small, weird sound when you remembered something embarrassing? Have you ever purposely lower-cased the first letter of a text to come across as sad or disappointed? Have you ever ended a text with a period as a sign of aggression? Have you ever laughed or smiled when someone said something unpleasant to you, and you wondered the rest of the day why you reacted that way? Have you ever put on a pair of pants, and then realized much later that there was a loose sock smushed up against your thigh? Have you ever tried to guess someone else's password so many times that it locked their account? Have you ever had a nagging feeling that one day you will be discovered as a fraud? Have you ever hoped that there was some ability you hadn't discovered yet that you were just naturally talented at? Have you ever broken something in real life, and then found yourself looking for an "undo" button in real life? Have you ever marveled at how someone you thought was so ordinary could suddenly become so beautiful? Have you ever stared at your phone, smiling like an idiot while texting someone? Have you ever subsequently texted that person the phrase, "I'm staring at the phone, smiling like an idiot"? Have you ever been tempted to, and gave into that temptation, of looking through someone else's phone? Have you ever had a conversation with yourself, and then suddenly realized you're a terrible person to yourself? Has your phone ever run out of battery in the middle of an argument, and it sort of felt like the phone was breaking up with both of you? Have you ever thought that working on an issue between you and yourself was futile, because it should just be more natural than this, or this is supposed to happen just naturally? Have you ever realized that very little, in the long run, just happens naturally? Have you ever woken up blissfully, and suddenly been flooded by the awful remembrance that someone had left you? Have you ever lost the ability to imagine a future without a person that no longer was in your life? Have you ever looked back on that event with the sad smile of autumn and the realization that futures will happen, regardless? Congratulations, you have now completed and passed the test. You are human. Want to know who has the best 7 Cups profile? Click here [http://7cups.com/11840748]!
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