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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

Ivy229
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*Currently Not Taking Any New Member Chat Requests, Unless I Initiate The Chat. Only Available To Take Listener Requests For Peer Support And Related Matters*  To Find Available Listeners Check Out The Following Link: https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]  Currently online listeners will have a green dot, but please read their profile first to ensure they are taking new chats, support the topic you are interested in talking about, and another important information. [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] Additionally, you are able to join the chat request queue, and the next available listener will accept your chat request as soon as possible. Check Out The Following Link:   Connect Now | 7 Cups [https://www.7cups.com/connect/] ------------------------- About Me: Full-time university student majoring in Human Services with a concentration in Direct Service and double minor in Psychology and Medical Social Sciences INFJ (Myers-Briggs Personality Type) Hobbies: Listening to music, traveling, spending time with loved ones, cooking, learning, volunteering, drawing, the beach, amusement parks Since a young age I have been very passionate about giving back and helping others. I truly believe one of my biggest purposes in life is to try to do whatever I can in my lifetime to help improve the lives of others and try to leave some sort of lasting positive impression on the world Favorite Quotes/Mottos I Live By:   "Just When the Caterpillar Thought the World Was Over, It Became a Butterfly", "Where Words Fail, Music Speaks"-Hans Christian Andersen, "Be the Change You Wish to See in the World"-Mahatma Gandhi ------------------------- I feel so blessed for this opportunity to connect with people around the world with whom I have so much in common. I have noticed we are all a bit optimistic, we believe in humanity, we believe in kindness, we believe in a better tomorrow.   We are all here because we believe that kind word even from a stranger can make a change. And it Can!   You never know fully what impact you have on another human being! Did you save relationships today? Did you save someone's career? someone's life? health? friendship? We never will know for sure, however, I have certainty that you changed someone's day, someone's life today.   Today is (05/12/2021 or whatever the date is when you are reading this). It is a unique day. There will be 05/13/2021 / 05/12/2022,2023 etc but never again 05/12/2021😊 And we had the opportunity to live this day, for one reason or another. Maybe it is so we can tell our grandchildren about this day, maybe today is the day you start feeling better, maybe today is the day you are finally able to accomplish something you couldn't before, maybe today is the day you finally are able to love yourself exactly the way you are, maybe today is the day you feel completely carefree and grounding, maybe today is the day.................😊   I hope I can help make this unique day better for you, to enjoy this day, to feel loved, supported, heard, understood, and whatever it is you may need to make this day all the more unique and special. The day which will never happen again in the history of humanity So, I want to thank each one of you for being here, for giving me the opportunity to listen to you, for having the courage to be vulnerable, honest, and giving me an insight into whatever you may be feeling/thinking/experiencing, and ultimately giving me the chance to not only be a part of this unique day in your life but giving me the chance to make someone's day better. Each chat I get the fortunate opportunity to have whether it is with a member or listener is my chance to be present and listen to your valuable, unique, important, and personal story. Remember you are never alone; you matter and are needed in this world.  ------------------------- If the circle on my profile picture is red, I am either offline, busy, or not taking chats even if I am on the site. Feel free to leave a message and I will get back to you when I can. If I respond expect responses to be delayed. If the circle is orange, I'm working on something, or I am in a chatroom. Again, feel free to try me as I likely will be able to respond, but responses will be delayed. If it's green, I am here and I can take chats. If I have a time limit, I will let you know. If for some reason your first message the response isn't quick, I am probably away from the computer for a moment (though I usually try to switch to yellow) or your chat got buried which sometimes happens randomly. Please give me some time and I will respond as soon as possible. ------------------------- *I am open to taking all types of chats as long as they are within the appropriate terms of service according to 7 Cups of Tea. However, I reserve the right to let you know that I might not feel like I am the best person to handle a chat and will do my best to help find a listener who I feel would be better suited.  * If you plan on being inappropriate and cannot adhere to the terms of service please do both of us a favor and do not attempt to message me. You will be reported and blocked as I take my roles on 7 Cups serious and do not have any time or desire to engage in these types of situations on here.  *I have checked off multiple different issues I am comfortable providing support, but the ones that I feel most adapted to handle include: Anxiety, Borderline (BPD), Relationships, Bullying, Chronic Illness/Pain, Depression, Panic Attacks/Disorders, Disability, Domestic Violence, General Mental Health, Loneliness, Managing Emotions, Body Image Issues, and Women's Issues. *My chats are typically 30-60 minutes long unless agreed to something different. *I am able to do offline chats as well as live chats through scheduled chats, and inquiring if I am able to talk outside of that set time when my status is online.  *My time zone is EST. Here is a Time Zone Converter https://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/converter.html?p1=179 (Please Note Eastern Time is New York Time when you are using the converter) ------------------------- Current Roles @7 Cups - Verified Listener  -Group Support Leader (Room Supporter) Depression Support Room  (As of May 13, 2024) -Peer Supporter (As of May 21, 2024) -Safety Patrol (As of June 16, 2024) -Listener Chatroom Supporter (As of September 18, 2024) - Quality Listening Program (QLP) Mentor (In Trial As of November 1, 2024)  -7 Cups Internship Mentor  (In Trial As of December 6, 2024 until January 6, 2024) Academy Programs I Have Graduated From: - 7 Cups Leadership Development Program (LDP) with Honors    (June 23, 2024) - 7 Cups Quality Listener Program (QLP) with Honors (August 2, 2024) - 7 Cups Internship Program with Honors (Student Track)  (November 19, 2024) I have successful Completed:  -ALL 4 Active Listening Training Guides -ALL Currently Offered Training Guides -ALL Peer Trainings 1-12  (Peer Pro) - Community Building Course   (June 7, 2023) - Time Management Course   (May 10, 2023) -Inner Development Goals Course  (May 25, 2024) Awards I Have Received @7 Cups - Academy Awards December 2024   
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Starlasky
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Hey! I'm Shreya, 20 years old🌟 Not taking any member chats currently due to my roles. You are not alone. If you ever feel like venting and getting it off your chest then I'm always here to be all ears for you. I'll listen and support you 😊. I'm a chat supporter so to listeners who want support during a chat or have chat related concerns you can drop me a text! To listeners who want peer support. Feel free to pm me if you ever want some peer support.   Just like stars, I believe that we all can glow up in our life just like they glow up in darkness ✨ My online status I'm updating my online status. I barely use the green online symbol, so it's red mostly all the time. You are always free to leave me a text and I will get back to you! I used to keep my response time 24 hours earlier but it's 48-72 hours now and if I still haven't responded, I'm so sorry it must have got piled up among the other texts, you can text me again so I catch onto it. Thank you! Chats I'm not comfortable with ★Anything sexual-related, such as sexual health, problems, assault, rape.   Chat Boundaries ★ I take chats for 45 to 60 minutes. ★ I'm not taking any long term members. ★ Please be respectful, it would be highly appreciated.   My roles over here (Currently these are previous roles because I returned from a year-long break) ★ Support Team Leader for the SHR subcommunity and Addiction Support. ★ Community Mentor for SHR and Addiction Support. ★ A Quality Mentor. ★ An Intern Mentor. ★ Team Leader For Listener Events Team. ★ Chat Supporter. ★ Chatroom moderator for newbie hub and self-harm recovery community. ★ Peer supporter. ★ Project Agent for LCI. ★ Listener verifier. ★ Care Team guide. ★ Project Agent for the VL Team. ★ Appreciation Check - In Host. ★ A safety patrol member. ★ Doorkeeper. ------------------------- A beautiful poem I want to share and I really want to thank @BlackRose522 for this, they are the sweetest soul I know! On this bright sunny day, I look at the sky. Always fearing one day, that you will die. But I still see you hiding there, Nice try! I'll wait for the evening, to see you fly! I await for you to hear my words Wondering what do I even deserve. I speak to you, since you're preserved Hoping you have some love in reserve The darkness is here, and it's all ours In my heart, and in the sky, it showers I await your glow to heal my scars Oh you're finally here, the ever-stars Now that you're here, everything is just ok Pain, sadness, fear, it can all just go away Bathing in your glow is an eternal bliss And Nothing can pull me away from this. Hope you have a good time ahead 💙  
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hopefulDew435
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Here to help and be there as support or a form of comfort to anyone who needs me to be. Note: Do not send me a message if you intend on flirting or intend to engage any kind of sexual conversation. 
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Fuechsin
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🍃 Hey wonderful person, I'm Josephine or Füchsin! 🍃 Currently, I cannot provide any additional chats for new members Click "Show More" for more information about me as a listener Everyone deserves to have a happy life. Receiving the time and space for venting can be crucial for that journey. As a verified listener, this is what I can provide for you. ⯈ My status ⯇ Green Available for listening now. Feel free to reach out! Orange Currently busy with another chat or other 7 cups duties. Expect a delay of several hours Red Currently offline, but I'll get back to you as soon as possible ⯈ Chats with me ⯇ I will solely focus on you and what you want to talk about. You can expect open-mindedness and empathy while I'm trying to understand your point of view. We will explore your situation at hand and work towards making you feel comfortable. Chat sessions with me are up to 60 minutes long to give you my undivided attention. All topics are welcome, even if they aren't listed in my categories I cannot provide support regarding self-harm, alcohol / drug abuse, or eating disorders ⯈ Chat slots for long-term support ⯇ My schedule outside 7 Cups can be unpredictable, so I have limited slots for chats. That's why I stick to two slots for scheduled chats and long-term support. My current slots are (CEST / CET / Berlin time): Tuesdays from 5:00 pm to 6:00 pm Thursdays from 5:00 pm to 6:00 pm Occasionally, I might also be available at (CEST / CET / Berlin time): Mondays from 11:00 pm to 12:00 am Wednesdays from 11:00 pm to 12:00 am Fridays from 10:30 pm to 12:00 am 🦊 About Me 🦊 Name: Josephine Country of origin: Germany Age: 28 Pronouns: She / Her Occupation: 👩‍💻 Software engineering and architecture consultant Hobbies & Interests: 🎮 Video Games, 🧗‍♀️ bouldering, 🫛 vegan cooking 🦊 Fun fact: Füchsin means vixen in German 🦊 ⯈ My listener twin ⯇ My wonderful listener twin was dreamIcicle8467 We're sharing the same brain cell
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kenzolena
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Heyy I'm Lena and welcome to my listener bio ♡ 🚨 Currently my memory is acting up duo to health related matters so I might not remember all correctly 🚨                                                                                 Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation]  ————- ♡ ————- Remembering Courner ————- ♡ ————- Fly high Blazer, 9 Oct, 2024 ✝️🤍🕊 currently not fully active duo to my loss ————- ♡ ————-♡————-♡ ————- A little about me : ) We can talk about any topic, you can be honest with me, you never ever bother me. I always try making you feel comfortable and smile in our chats. You are enough and loved In case nobody told you today: am glad you're here today😊 I don’t judge, you can be you in our chat. If you just want to chat that’s okay, if you wanna talk about something that's okay too. You can tell me what you're comfortable with. If you want to be my friend then lets be friends I absolutely love cats and dogs 🐾, I have a dog which is named Blazer. My favorite color is purple and green My pronouns are she/they. Topics i dont take- I will listen to you and give you support as best as I can while using my active listening skills with almost most topics <3, but there are a few topics that I’m not able or comfortable talking about.  The topics that I’m not able to talk about are, sexual health, sexual assault and abuse, I also don’t talk about certain topics in relationships or break-ups but I am able to take these chats and I will let you know if it triggers me. ——- ♡ ————-  ————- ♡ ————-————- ♡ ————-  ————- ♡ ————-————- ♡ ————-  ————- ♡ ——— =-Roles-= 🍄I am able to edit and delete forum posts (forum key badge) 🍄 🍃 Leading Mindful Minutes 🍃 🦋 Sub-Leading Kahoot Sessions Team 🦋  🤍Leading Welcome Committe 🤍 🍂 Part of the Kahoot team 🍂 🌌 Peer Supporter!🌌 🫂 Chat Supporter 🫂 🌸 Listener chatroom supporter 🌸 🌈 Global Moderator 🌈 🐞 room supporter! 🐞 💜 (teen) Quality mentor 💜 🔥 Teen transitioning mentor 🔥 Listener Verifying Team: Do you want to become a verified listener? You can learn more here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/VerifiedListenersProject_1839/IWanttobeaVerifiedListener_46935/1/]! 🦕 Verified Listener 🦕 🚪Doorkeeper🚪 🌟 Spot 🌟 🐾I completed 8 weeks of the leadership program.🐾 👩‍🎓 Completed the Leadership Development Program 👩‍🎓 Links you may find helpful ... Guidelines  [https://www.7cups.com/community-guidelines] Community Calender [https://www.7cups.com/home/communityCalendar.php] Community Forums [https://www.7cups.com/home/] Report A Member/Listener [https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/requests/new] ————- ♡ ————- Listener Twin ————- ♡ ————- @lightandhope51 - She is awesome pawesome and truly a dear person to me. ————- ♡ ————- Quote Courner ————- ♡ ————- when our light starts to dim we sometimes need someone elses to help bright up ours ❤️  “No matter who you are, where you're from, your skin color, gender identity: speak yourself. "Find your name, find your voice by speaking yourself.” ————- ♡ ————- Status meaning  ————- ♡ ————- Green status: I’m online and taking requests/chat, please leave a message if you think I am a good fit for you, I’m here for you and I’m an active listener. Orange status: I’m online but I’m not actively taking requests or chat ( even though my status is orange I will still be take chats while this color is active, feel free to leave a message and I will get back to you as soon as I can) I am most likely in the chat rooms or online in another way. Red Status: There is a chance that I’m online but not actively taking chats or personal requests. ✦ My response time is within 2-5 working days. Updated on 9th of September, 2024
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PeacefulOnes
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Welcome to my profile! I'm pleased to meet you.  I volunteer as a Listener, Peer Support, and Listener Chatroom Support on 7 Cups because I believe in our mission to provide a supportive environment to everyone in need for free. It can be a challenge to ask for help, but the fact that you're here means you've already taken an important step. You deserve to be treated with kindness and respect. My approach consists of empathy, validation, and reflection. I'm here to listen compassionately to your concerns without giving advice and help you sort out your thoughts. I usually limit my chats to one hour. I approach each chat with the expectation that a mutual attitude of constructiveness will be maintained, so I kindly ask that you keep this in mind for the sake of common courtesy. Additionally, make sure to confirm I take chats related to the issue you wish to discuss. If you think I could be a suitable Listener for you, do not hesitate to contact me. ------------------------- Be kind. Be gentle. Be giving. ------------------------- Graduated from the Leadership Development Program on 11/21/24 ------------------------- Listener Twin: @Positiveak
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DragonspanAnge
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Please read my profile before messaging.  Hi I'm looking forward to listening to you. I have been through many experiences in life and these have shown me how important it is to listen. You matter, what you're going through matters. Please note that I don't take casual chats. Topics that I am comfortable providing support for are: * Anxiety  * BPD (borderline)  * Chronic Pain  * General Mental Health * Grief * Loneliness  * Obsessive Compulsive Disorder * Panic Attacks * PTSD * Recovery  * Sleeping Well Topics I'm not comfortable discussing:  * Addiction  * Adoption/Foster Care * Alcohol/Drug Abuse  * Autism Spectrum  * Domestic Violence  * Financial Stress * LGBTQ+ Issues * Men's Issues * Sexual Health * Relationships  * Schizophrenia About Me I live in New Zealand and have a passion for helping people see their own potential.  I enjoy doing crafts in my spare time, own a wonderful cat and love animals.  I'm not taking casual chats, just support chats. Thanks 💕  Twin hopefulmoon5845 💖
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NewYorker11
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i am available on weekends for member chats! i enjoy chatting with new people and i hope that i can take your chat sometime soon! best regards!
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Heartsandrosesandpaws
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I greatly love learning new things, nature, cats, and much more.
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ChaoticListener
L Intermediate 8 64
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✨Availability ~ I will respond to Direct Messages when I see them, please allow up to 1-5 business days✨ 📚Thank you for understanding, as I am a public school teacher📚 🌴A chaotic listener. Vegan & Forest power! Chats will usually be ~30 minutes🌴 ------------------------- Here are some free mental health apps  — * https://tinyurl.com/Big-List * https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=is.vertical.ptsdcoach * https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=id.com.WorryDolls&pli=1 * https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.jacksontempra.apps.whatsup&gl=US * https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.woebot ------------------------- * USA National Suicide Prevention Hotline: * 1-800-273-8255 [tel:+18002738255] * USA warm line directory for non-crisis mental health or emotional issues. Call or text. Warm lines do not contact police: * https://www.warmline.org/ * The NAMI (National Alliance on Mental Illness) website where you can find free mental health resources: * https://www.nami.org/Home ------------------------- No matter what you feel or what you have been told regarding the amount you need to do to "just not feel depressed [insert any other mental illness here]" know that whatever you do for yourself is enough, mental illness can be debilitating, and the fact that you are here shows you are doing the healing work. I wish for you the world, I wish for you the power to change age old systems of oppression and to heal yourself in the process.
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ipauline
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Hello <3 I can speak English & Spanish.  I accept personal requests, but might not respond quickly because I prefer to chat with one person at a time. 💙 However, feel free to message me, and we can schedule an appointment. Some of the topics I take are Anxiety, Managing Emotions, Borderline Disorder, and ADHD.  I don't take sexual health problems, sexual issues, eating disorders or men's issues, as I'm not familiar with them.  My timezone ⏰: GMT-6. CST. 🌏 I own 3 chinchillas, 2 dachshunds & 4 parrots. 💛 🐸 Some of my favorite topics are career guidance, spirituality, mindfulness & logotherapy.  I love neuroscience, the biology of emotions, and CBT, but I also have an active spiritual life that involves mindfulness. 
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