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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

BlueberryPuffin17
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Hello! 👒 I'm happy you were brought on my page. I am a verified listener here on 7 cups, the areas I am most familiar with are anxiety, family stress, college life, and LGBTQ+. I enjoy writing short stories, learning languages and making chocolate. Feel free to drop me a message, length is never an issue - one liners and essays both work for me. I tend to keep one conversation at a time, so you can expect full attention.  Take good care of yourself, always. Available for peer support, shoot me a message.  
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PetiteSouris
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🌺🌺🌺🌺 Members Not accepting personal requests. Connect with available listeners here: Browse Listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/].  𖡼𖤣𖥧𖡼𓋼𖤣𖥧𓋼𓍊𖡼𖤣𖥧𖡼𓋼𖤣𖥧𓋼𓍊𖡼𖤣𖥧𖡼𓋼𖤣𖥧𓋼𓍊𖡼𖤣𖥧𖡼 About me Academy Mentor Leader with 7 Cups Academy.   Academy Mentor with the Internship Program. Active Listening Test 1 Grader. Available on Monday, Wednesday and Friday. 𖡼𖤣𖥧𖡼𓋼𖤣𖥧𓋼𓍊𖡼𖤣𖥧𖡼𓋼𖤣𖥧𓋼𓍊𖡼𖤣𖥧𖡼𓋼𖤣𖥧𓋼𓍊𖡼𖤣𖥧𖡼 Thank you for stopping by my tiny patch of digital real estate.  🌺🌺🌺 Petitesouris updated 11.13.2024
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coolvibes
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Welcome to my Igloo, Please, come sit by the fire and relax with me for a while.... Hello, thanks for finding me on 7cups. I promise to do my best to help you feel heard. I look forward to speaking with you so just leave a message. I have had an exciting adventure continuing to grow as a listener. I enjoy meeting new people and sharing moments of their day with them. I live with the philosophy that you're never too old to learn something new. Being open to learning is what keeps us young mentally, no matter how fragile our bodies get. I look forward to connecting with you. I take long term chats and mold My listening to my members needs just like a warm cozy blanket. I am willing to support most topics, all I ask is you be mindful of the site rules and respect my personal boundaries on extreme and inappropriate content. I am available for one hour chats and reply to request with in a 24 hour period. My time zone is CDT I chat once to twice a week and also can reply offline if that is your preference. On scheduled chats there will not be any in between time responses, but I will respond to anything previously texted on that scheduled meeting. My Listener Twins @Jenna @Bobcatz @bouncyCandy4246
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SparkyGizmo
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Unable to take member chats at this time.  "You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem and smarter than you think". - Winnie The Pooh I believe that all people need something to do, something to aspire to and someone to love. I believe that angels walk among us, because God is a really busy person-solving lack of world peace, world hunger, etc.  He sends angels to us even in human form to help the cause.  Look for them...now, look harder. I believe what you seek, you shall find. I believe that we all have something to learn from anyone and everyone that we meet. I believe that happiness is a journey and not a destination. I believe that kindness matters, always. Oh well, that's just me.  I BELIEVE ❤️  Enough about me, how about if we talk about you?  Roles on 7 cups Trained Active Listener Verified Active Listener Safety Patrol Team  Peer Pro Peer Support Global Forum Supporter 7 Cups Welcome Committee Pop Up Room Co-host when needed Eyes to the ground. Head bowed. Love in my heart. If we could only just think....."Ideologies separate us. Dreams and anguish bring us together". - Eugene Ionesco . Please let us all be kind to ourselves and to one another.  "Don't be evil" Paul Buchheit "Love Always Comes Back" GlenM's grandmother "...and this is why we can't have nice things around here".  H 😊😁😊 "Keep it real or get the banana peel". Community Mod Anne Proud recipient of the:  Funny Bunny Badge, Biggest Heart Award, Love Award, Kindness Personified Award, Electrifying Energy Badge, "O.A." Original Appreciator Badge, Unofficial "The Receptionist", Spark Hug Badge, "Sing" Badge, Sparkiest Badge, Unsung Hero, Hug Master and "Count on Me" (Thank you teammates! I adore you all! ❤️)
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delightfulUnicorn38
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i m Unicorn an active listener and peer pro too , if you need any help just pm i ll be happy to chat with you  I can help with defining the issue, setting recovery plans, selecting the growth path  offering the recourse, and emotional support   
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Misssmilingangel
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AM ON A BREAK FROM CHATS KIINDLY BROWSE OUR OTHER HELPFUL AND VERY KIND LISTENERS
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Kait
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☺️Hello friend!! ☺️ I'm so happy you've found me on 7 Cups of Tea.  🌿 🌿 🌿 🌿 🌿 🌿  I'm a 27 year old verified active listener and I love talking with and supporting people who are in need of a non-judgmental & friendly chat. I've been on 7cups for a while now and enjoy the work we do together. Life has a habit of throwing us a few curveballs and sometimes we just need someone to talk to. My approach to active listening centers community, mindfulness, and gratitude, because these are my core values as a listener & as a person in mental health recovery myself.  Please note: I am a volunteer listener, not a mental health professional. Therefore, if you are experiencing a crisis, such as suicidal thoughts or self harm thoughts, please see the 7cups crisis resource page, which can be found here [http://www.7cups.com/crisis.php] 🌞 🌞 🌞 🌞 🌞 🌞  About chatting with me: I am a part of the LGBTQ 🌈 community and enjoy taking chats regarding LGBTQ topics. I also have personal experience with topics such as anxiety, depression, grief and loss, relationships and codependency (as well as non monogamous/polyamorous relationships), borderline personality, OCD, PTSD, women's issues, spirituality & religion, chronic pain and physical disabilities, homelessness, and self harm. I accept a variety of chats both within these issues and outside of these issues and have education in social work.  Please note that I do not offer chats related to details about sex. My chats are typically 30 minutes, sometimes up to 1 hour in length & are offered on an ad-hoc basis. I unfortunately can't guarantee reliable, on-going chats. I might offer a follow up chat or two, and/or brief ongoing check-ins as my capacity allows 😊 (Long-term listening might be available on a case-by-case basis).   🌺 🌺 🌺 🌺 🌺 🌺 My roles on 7cups include: -Trained & Verified Active Listener  -Mindfulness Room Supporter -Listener Discussion Leader ✨✨✨✨✨✨ About Me:  In my free time I enjoy painting, playing board games, spending time in nature, stargazing, and volunteering. I also love to dance, swim, read, spend time at the library, journaling, and writing. A fun fact about me is that I spent a summer working at a national park!  Thank you for taking the time to read my profile and I hope we can connect soon! 🍀 🍀 🍀 🍀 🍀 🍀
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Hope
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Hi! I am Laiba, also known as Hope! I oversee 7 Cups academy [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SiteUpdates_100/HsHaven_1970/StriveTowardsLeadershipProfessionalExcellencethe7CupsAcademy_232978/1/]. At the moment I am unable to provide listening support to members. I believe education should be practical and available to all. I have the honor of contributing to just that through 7 Cups academy. Explore your options and reasons to join the academy here [https://www.7cups.com/path/playlist/7-cups-academy/] All our programs are free and we provide a certificate and a badge upon completion. If you have feedback about an academy program or you wish to recommend a new program, please let us know using this form.  [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdQ6rJ-wZOzUVpI_FDpc4dkHRKgBiJQwq1NfoK_aL7F-RyP8g/viewform] Please read before PMing! ✦ My response time is within 2 working days. I am typically not available on weekends.  ✦ I am no longer taking member support requests/listening requests concerning personal issues. If you are looking for a supportive listener, please find one here! [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] I have created a few growth paths (some in collaboration with the community) that I would love for you to explore! ✦ Preventing Burnout at 7 Cups [https://www.7cups.com/path/playlist/preventing-burnout-at-7-cups/] ✦ Managing Anxiety [https://www.7cups.com/path/playlist/managing-anxiety/] ✦ Leadership Basics [https://www.7cups.com/path/playlist/leadership-101/] ✦ Watering Hope [https://www.7cups.com/path/playlist/watering-hope/] ✦ Study Motivation [https://www.7cups.com/path/playlist/study-motivation/]
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KaylaBella
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I am on an extended self-care break. I will not be taking 1-1 chats at this time 💕  Hello my wonderful loves!🥰 My name is Kayla.💕 My nicknames are: Bells, Bella, Kay, Kayla, Bellaboo I would like to start out by saying that I am super excited to be here as a listener! I have been here for almost 10 years now, and Cups is a huge part of my life and my heart.    🌸💕🌸💕🌸 A little bit about me: I have been through a lot of trauma and challenges in my life. Without all of the those, I wouldn't be who I am today and I wouldn't change anything given the chance. 🥰 I have personal experience with many different  areas of Addiction as well as sexual trauma. I am very passionate about listening to and helping others. You guys are my passion!! 🌸💕🌸💕🌸 Everything listed below as chats that I take, are issues that I have personal experience with. 💕 If it is listed as chats I do not take, please do not request me as I will not be able to help you ♥️ 🌸💕🌸💕🌸 HOURS I AM AVAILABLE ***(Hours are subject to change dependent upon my personal life)*** Monday through Friday: 4:00PM - 6:00PM EST time Saturdays: 5:00PM - 10:00PM EST time every other Saturday Sundays: Self-Care Day, Not available for chats, May take a few but it truly depends on the circumstances of the day for me ***If I am offline when you message me, I will respond as soon as I can!*** CHATS I TAKE✅: Work Stress Panic Attacks Alcohol/Drug Abuse Chronic Pain Family Stress Forgiveness Parenting PTSD Relationship Stress Women's Issues Self Esteem Spirituality CHATS I DO NOT TAKE❌: Anxiety Depression Sexual Health (I will not take any chats that are sexual in any nature. Whether that be fantasies, roleplays, or in general sexual health.) Domestic Violence Grief Loneliness Men's Issues  Personality Disorders Self-Harm Schizophrenia  Everything that is said between me and you will remain between me and you. 💕  Remember: YOU ARE ENOUGH! AND YOU ARE LOVED! ♥️ Looking to spread some cheer?  Maybe shout out a fellow member or listener for how great they are?  Click the button below to spread some smiles🥰 Peer Appreciation Form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScsCXyPYjQ4dsfLMh2ZzXC4of1lEutJsSasbkzc6JLDq7b8ow/viewform] Community Projects I am a part of: ⭕ Chatroom Moderator for Positivity & Gratitude Community ✨ ⭕ Chatroom Moderator for Newbie Hub ✨  ⭕ Listener Chatroom Supporter ✨ ⭕ Star Leader for Peer Appreciation Team  ✨ ⭕ Discussion Host for Positivity & Gratitude Community ✨ ⭕ Doorkeeper ✨ Listener Twins: @OllieRNLI999 💕 & @MindfulJourney22 💕 Mentors: @Kristynsmama🌸 & @Sunisshiningandsoareyou🌸 LINKS FOR MEMBERS Moderator/Listener Review Form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScmfpQqScgcFxOSHveQfbP52m-XNu-DBC6oK7ieTHrGQ4hJ3w/viewform]  Why did I get this warning? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupportChatRooms_140/InformationUpdates_822/underconstruction_44686/]  Member FAQ [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupportChatRooms_140/InformationUpdates_822/GroupSupportMemberFAQ_37007/]  Group Support Chat Room Emergency [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScRXkwrrPicWRzUvBPYq2wrblHE5HexqFmVA3k3B4QLEoNyHw/viewform]  Report A Missing Discussion/Event [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe8EnUN-ZDdjEBQDP5D6-vi2noQdLndJ2H13woo89UhxlkhlQ/viewform]  Welcome Packet for New Members [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1CL9Yu_6zixlapOjdrhCgKLy9JN5wY3HWdrGH7PIO2WI] LINKS FOR LISTENERS Sign Up to be a Group Mod [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScX7nNahJocq0tgDYBesRicWxTfExFCe5QMI-O-04K-qBjZrA/viewform] Sign Up to be a Room Supporter [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSetyJ7jp7W52-EIpqvFYLhfmpsgTW4BbzUwmi9r22OQ9AdH8w/viewform] Become a Peer Support [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenersOnlyForums_38/PeerSupportForum_397/PeerSupportBadgeGetInvolvedSupportTheCommunity_2474/1/] Join a Support Team [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupportChatRooms_140/KatesCave_1395/JoinASupportTeamUpdatedInfo_102743/]  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupportChatRooms_140/KatesCave_1395/JoinASupportTeamUpdatedInfo_102743/] New Listener Hub [https://www.7cups.com/home/welcome/?notifyID=178791978]
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HopieRemi
L Epitome 19 5566
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To Listeners, I do not do random casual conversations. You can message me for 7cups related questions and mentoring. I reply to PMs as soon as I can.  If messaging, let me know if you are seeking peer support, mentoring, or chat support. I can also edit Forum Posts. To Members:  I have been honored to be a listener since June 2016.  Time boundaries and personal boundaries are important for me as I do not talk about myself or use this for support and I have limited time. I do not offer advice as that can be harmful to you. I am able to support any topic outside of sext, active suicidal ideation, or homicidal ideas. If you feel like you're in crisis (Suicidal, homicidal, self-harming), please check out this helpful resource [https://www.7cups.com/crisis/].  I mostly offer support in the group room as a Moderator and the forums as a Community Mentor.  I accept new members. If you are contacting me, please let me know in a few words what our conversation will be about. If you need immediate support, I recommend you browse [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] for a listener who is online. If you have been referred to me, please send me a message and let me know you are a referral. By the way, my favorite color is Blue. What's yours?
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ASilentObserver
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"You are always one decision away from a totally different life." Hello everyone, I'm known as Obs and I'm one of the members of the Community Management Team [https://www.7cups.com/about/communityGuidelines.php].  Here are some resources in case you need them -  If you are unable to see any group support rooms, probably you would need to meet some requirements. Check them here! [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/ASilentObserversOffice_2008/WeeklyGroupSupportLetterWeekofFeb10_217277/]  Join us in various group discussions. check the community calendar for the schedule and details.  [https://www.7cups.com/home/communityCalendar.php] Group Support Frequently Asked Questions [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/ObsDesk_2008/FrequentlyAskedQuestionsGroupSupport_215692/] Weekly Communi. a listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SafetyKnowledgeat7Cups_181/CommunityModeratorWeeklySchedule_1640/CommunityModScheduleWeekofJan06_214569/] If you are a listener and need some Chat Support, check this resource [https://www.google.com/url?q=https://docs.google.com/document/d/1jf7BqGrwkY0zFhU3PKaAaRVCoEd6O2TD0vNhuiRHRD8/edit?usp%3Dsharing&sa=D&ust=1581950130116000&usg=AFQjCNFZd4GUNuPdJ94r__2tXhDNc9oL5Q]  Please feel free to PM me with any questions or doubts regarding our community and roles. I am here with you to help with the best of my efforts while we keep building our community better each day with team efforts.  I am unable to take chat requests right now as I am unable to respond timely. I request you to connect with other available listeners here-  Browse Listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]. We all are here with you to listen to and support you.  Do not say, "I am having a bad day." Say, "I am having a character-building day." - Les Brown Have a wonderful day and thanks for stopping by!!
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MistyMagic
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I am unable to take on new chats from members right now. Please understand and  "I am glad you have found me here at 7 Cups! I am happy to listen to you on many topics. I have experience in lots of different areas - anxiety, depression, and mental illness, families, and relationships, love, school, college, or work-related problems, financial stress, healthy living, food, and special diets, I can also offer support for chronic pain, illness, and disabilities. I am part of both the adult and the teen listening team, (and yes I can still remember being a teen lol) and I also offer long-term support to those that I can and who are in need. If I am not online then you are welcome to leave me a message -  but please tell me what you want to talk about so we can get off to a flying start. I will get back to you when I am next able, but please bear in mind that I get a lot of messages and I will reply to the most urgent first so if you just say hi, do you really just want a hi back? If you are a teen turning 18 soon then you can apply for one of the Teen Transitioning Team to reach out and support you through the transition from the teen side to the 18+ adult side.  The form is here ~~~> https://bit.ly/7CupsTTM If you have any feedback or ideas for the Disability Support Community then please fill out this form ~~> https://forms.gle/EJN1SX74mo6swPwN6  At weekends my response will be slower as that is usually my time off from 7 Cups, and I may not respond to any PMs or new requests till Monday. I  hope you understand that. We all need time for ourselves to recharge our batteries and relax.  ONE STEP AT A TIME "We all have different-sized footsteps that we leave behind on our journey through life. Sometimes we can change the size of our footsteps, the imprint, the impact, the direction. Sometimes our footsteps land on rock and they do not show, or they land on sand and stay for a while, Other times they get washed away by massive oceans or powerful waves. But each and every footstep is important in so many ways. Ways that we may not even know about. Watch your step, think about your steps, plan your next step, and the rest will follow."  Listening ... one step at a time Quote of Acceptance When we don't accept an undesired event, it becomes Anger, When we accept it, it becomes tolerance. When we don't accept uncertainty, it becomes fear, When we accept it, it becomes an adventure,  When we don't accept other's bad behavior toward us, it becomes hatred, When we accept it, it becomes forgiveness. When we don't accept other's success, it becomes jealousy When we accept it, it becomes an inspiration. Acceptance is the key to handling life well !! Butterflies are a symbol of hope that we can all change from a small brown grub into a beautiful amazing butterfly! One step at a time! "Those who never change their minds, never change anything!" (Winston S. Churchill) "Prepare for the worst, but hope for the best!"  (B. Disraeli) Pearls are a great symbol of the grace we create, for the oyster creates its greatest work of art from an irritant.
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