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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

ASilentObserver
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"You are always one decision away from a totally different life." Hello everyone, I'm known as Obs and I'm one of the members of the Community Management Team [https://www.7cups.com/about/communityGuidelines.php].  Here are some resources in case you need them -  If you are unable to see any group support rooms, probably you would need to meet some requirements. Check them here! [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/ASilentObserversOffice_2008/WeeklyGroupSupportLetterWeekofFeb10_217277/]  Join us in various group discussions. check the community calendar for the schedule and details.  [https://www.7cups.com/home/communityCalendar.php] Group Support Frequently Asked Questions [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/ObsDesk_2008/FrequentlyAskedQuestionsGroupSupport_215692/] Weekly Communi. a listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SafetyKnowledgeat7Cups_181/CommunityModeratorWeeklySchedule_1640/CommunityModScheduleWeekofJan06_214569/] If you are a listener and need some Chat Support, check this resource [https://www.google.com/url?q=https://docs.google.com/document/d/1jf7BqGrwkY0zFhU3PKaAaRVCoEd6O2TD0vNhuiRHRD8/edit?usp%3Dsharing&sa=D&ust=1581950130116000&usg=AFQjCNFZd4GUNuPdJ94r__2tXhDNc9oL5Q]  Please feel free to PM me with any questions or doubts regarding our community and roles. I am here with you to help with the best of my efforts while we keep building our community better each day with team efforts.  I am unable to take chat requests right now as I am unable to respond timely. I request you to connect with other available listeners here-  Browse Listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]. We all are here with you to listen to and support you.  Do not say, "I am having a bad day." Say, "I am having a character-building day." - Les Brown Have a wonderful day and thanks for stopping by!!
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FinleyTews
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UNAVAILABLE TO NEW MEMBERS Pfp gifted by dear Astraeuss! 🖤🩶🤍💜
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vivelespatates
L Epitome 10 2680
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Upcoming sessions https://www.7cups.com/forum/communityCalendar.php  if you need to edit or cancel an event already published, or any other need (repeats, pictures, titles or descriptions, etc) related to community calendar, send me a message. I answer within 24-48 hours. ------------------------- English will follow, please read the profile before to send a message! (I normally take only French Chats) ------------------------- FRANCAIS  Bonjour! Je suis patate! Je suis un écoutant "vérifié" et je suis ici pour vous apporter écoute et support dans les sujets suivants: - Anxiété, stress, attaques de panique (expérience personnelle) - Autisme et TSA  (expérience professionnelle) - Automutilation (expérience personnelle, j'ai complètement arrêté il y a plusieurs années) - Vivre avec un handicap physique - problèmes de santé physique (expérience personnelle) - maladies chroniques et/ou dégénératives (expérience personnelle) - Intimidation, taxage, discrimination (expérience personnelle et professionnelle) - Diversité culturelle (expérience personnelle et professionnelle) - LGBTQA+ (expérience personnelle) - Gestion des émotions (expérience personnelle) - Parentalité (expérience professionnelle) - Gestion du poids, adopter un mode de vie sain. (Je prône l'alimentation intuitive, pas les diètes) (expérience personnelle) - Victimes d'abus, Victimes de crimes (expérience personnelle) - Expérience traumatiques, État/Trouble de Stress Post-Traumatique (ESPT/TSPT) (expérience personnelle, je me suis rétablie) - Travail autonome, lancement d'une entreprise (expérience personnelle) - Troubles du comportement alimentaire (expérience personnelle, je me suis rétablie) - Stress financier (expérience personnelle) - Vie étudiante (expérience personnelle, je suis étudiante) - Ados vivant en familles d'acceuil/foyer de groupe/centre jeunesse, ou adultes qui y ont vécu enfant (expérience personnelle et professionnelle) Je NE prend PAS les clavardages sur les sujets suivants: - Relations  - Ruptures amoureuses et divorce - Santé sexuelle et tout ce qui touche la sexualité (excepté les victimes d'abus sexuels qui sont les bienvenues) - Rencontres (dating) - Problèmes "de garçon/d'homme ou de fille/femme" J'accepte les nouveaux membres, adolescents et adultes, tant pour du court terme, long terme et check-ins. Du au nombre de chats inappropriés, les requêtes hors-ligne ou sans sujet spécifiés ne seront pas répondu. Merci de précisé votre besoin et sujet dans votre premier message. ------------------------- English My English is limited to an intermediate level so I usually don't take adult chats in English. If you have been referred to me by an other listener with my permission, or crossed me from forums or chatrooms, feel free to message and specify! ;)  Otherwise, I accept teens for English chats on the following topics only:  - Anxiety, stress (personal experience) - panic attacks (personal experience, recovered) - Autism and ASD (working experience) - Self-harm (personal experience, fully recovered for years) - Living with a physical disability - physical health problems  (personal experience) - chronic and/or degenerative diseases (personal experience) - Bullying, taxing, discrimination (personal experience) - Cultural diversity (personal experience + professional experience) - LGBTQA+ (personal experience) - Emotional management (personal experience) - Weight management, adopting a healthy lifestyle. (I advocate intuitive eating, not diets) (personal experience) - Abuse victims, Crime victims (personal experience) - Traumatic experiences, Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) (personal experience, recovered) - Self-employment, starting a business (personal experience) - Eating disorders (personal experience, fully recovered) - Financial stress (personal experience) - Student life (personal experience, I'm still a student) - Parenting and familial (professional experience) - Foster care (personal experience and professional experience) If you have been referred to me by an other listener with my permission for a different topic, or crossed me from forums or chatrooms, feel free to message and specify! ;)  I DO NOT accept chats on the following topics: - Relationships (including boy/girl friend) - except parent-child or school which are welcome  - Breakups and divorces - Sexual health and any other sexual issue (except victims of crime) - "Boy/man or girl/woman" issues I accept new members, teens and adults for both short term and long term. Due to the number of inappropriate chats, offline requests without a specified topic will not be answered. ------------------------- Mentorat J'accepte les nouveaux mentorés.  Projets spécifiques pour lesquels j'offre un plus grand accompagnement, tant aux membres qu'aux écoutants:  * Group Support Mentor* (Support Team Leader for Healthy Living)   * Support Room Mentor (in charge of Tockify)  Ça signifie que je peux vous aider à planifier, organiser et animer des discussions de groupe dans les canaux, joindre une équipe qui anime régulièrement des discussions, ou mettre à jour vos évènements sur notre calendrier communautaire. (Pour le mentorat réservé aux écoutants, visitez mon profil de mentor) ------------------------- Healthy Living Team Are you a member or listener interested in leading healthy living discussions?!   The healthy living team is recruiting new discussion leaders to help members to develop good healthy habits, get support and motivation, and discuss topics in relation to their health. We have a lot of approved discussions available for you to lead!  If you are interested, message me in English or French and specify its about HL team or +Click here for more information [https://www.7cups.com/forum/HealthyLiving_141/HealthyLivingAnnouncements_828/LovebeingaleaderindiscussionsHealthyLivingteamrecruit_280892/]!  ------------------------- Twin My listener twins are @Jenna , @PoliteOcean and @HopieRemi <3 ------------------------- Group Support Mentor in charge of Tockify Calendar.  If you notice any issue in Tockify Calendar, including using it, creating, editing, canceling or deleting a session or repeated weekly event; or want to inform about events not taking place as planned, you are welcome to message me and I will reply within 24 to 48 hours. Upcoming sessions https://www.7cups.com/forum/communityCalendar.php  Help with planning, preparing or discussions. No matter if you are a member or listener, I can help you with that! :)  For mentoring specific to listeners, visit my mentor bio.
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Jenna
L Epitome 19 5964
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I'm currently on a break and not available for any PM's. Hello and welcome! I'm glad you’ve reached out. Life can feel overwhelming at times, and having someone to listen without judgment can make a difference. Whether you're feeling lost, anxious, or simply need a space to share your thoughts, I’m here to support you. I aim to create a safe, empathetic environment where you can feel heard and understood. We all battle things, and thankfully we don't have to do it alone even if it's just someone on the other side of the screen offering support. ------------------------- Topics I support Anxiety, Bipolar Disorder, Depression, Grief, LGBTQ+ PTSD/Trauma(Sexual Abuse/Assault), Terminal Illness ------------------------- What to expect I focus on being a compassionate listener, asking thoughtful questions, and helping you process your emotions. My goal is to help you feel lighter by the end of our conversation. I believe in the power of kindness, honesty, and mutual respect in every chat. My chats are 1 hour long and I support repeating members once a week. Feel free to reach out when you're ready to talk. Let's walk this journey together, one step at a time. ------------------------- Online - This indicates I am available to support you. Busy - This indicates that I am online, but I am already in a chat or not able to reply right away. Offline - This indicates that I am not online or taking chats at the moment. ------------------------- Twin Brian AnnaSilverberg Lefthanded Pal Bluerivercares Listener Quintuplets blithesun94, coolvibes, Kristynsmama, Teagan, vivelespatates
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SilentSerenityy
L Guru 8 848
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🌸 WELCOME! 🌸 I'm an experienced verified listener who is open minded, non-judgemental and I'm open to almost all topics. All I ask is that you respect my boundaries, such as my time constraints and/or my statuses (see at the bottom of bio). Whilst I support the topic of sexual health, this does not mean I am comfortable discussing kinks/fetishes, nor will I partake in anything of that nature either.  I cannot replace the role of a therapist/psychologist. If you feel that you need more support for your mental health condition or require advice, please reach out to a licensed professional. I am not able to support you during a crisis. If you feel you're experiencing a crisis, please contact a helpline here - https://www.7cups.com/crisis/ 🌸 AVAILABILITY 🌸 My time zone is GMT / BST. I am available to live chat for up to an hour at a time. I am open to arranging a time to chat if you'd like to chat for longer though! I work and am disabled, so my availability can vary quite a lot, which is why I'm much better at providing one off, short term support. However, I am happy for you to reach out to update me on what's been happening since we last spoke.  🌸 ABOUT ME  🌸 I'm in my late twenties, I have a cat who I adore and I spend a lot of my free time watching movies, cross stitching and playing video games. I live with multiple health conditions which makes life a little more challenging, but it means I can relate to members who are disabled or are living with chronic health conditions.   🌸 STATUSES 🌸S Online  I'm open to chatting/helping anyone, including listeners who might need some help with listening. Feel free to message me. Busy  You can request to chat, but I may not reply to your message or request, as I may be busy with other roles or helping others in chats.  Offline  I'm offline, having a self-care break, taking scheduled chats, supporting/hosting group discussions or unavailable to take personal requests. If I'm in a chatroom, please ask to send me a message. Being in a chatroom doesn't mean I'm available to take a 1-1 chat.
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Emily619
L Marvel 14 2056
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This is a test, a test to see if you are a human. Please note if something applies to you: Have you ever eaten a booger long past your childhood? Have you ever made a small, weird sound when you remembered something embarrassing? Have you ever purposely lower-cased the first letter of a text to come across as sad or disappointed? Have you ever ended a text with a period as a sign of aggression? Have you ever laughed or smiled when someone said something unpleasant to you, and you wondered the rest of the day why you reacted that way? Have you ever put on a pair of pants, and then realized much later that there was a loose sock smushed up against your thigh? Have you ever tried to guess someone else's password so many times that it locked their account? Have you ever had a nagging feeling that one day you will be discovered as a fraud? Have you ever hoped that there was some ability you hadn't discovered yet that you were just naturally talented at? Have you ever broken something in real life, and then found yourself looking for an "undo" button in real life? Have you ever marveled at how someone you thought was so ordinary could suddenly become so beautiful? Have you ever stared at your phone, smiling like an idiot while texting someone? Have you ever subsequently texted that person the phrase, "I'm staring at the phone, smiling like an idiot"? Have you ever been tempted to, and gave into that temptation, of looking through someone else's phone? Have you ever had a conversation with yourself, and then suddenly realized you're a terrible person to yourself? Has your phone ever run out of battery in the middle of an argument, and it sort of felt like the phone was breaking up with both of you? Have you ever thought that working on an issue between you and yourself was futile, because it should just be more natural than this, or this is supposed to happen just naturally? Have you ever realized that very little, in the long run, just happens naturally? Have you ever woken up blissfully, and suddenly been flooded by the awful remembrance that someone had left you? Have you ever lost the ability to imagine a future without a person that no longer was in your life? Have you ever looked back on that event with the sad smile of autumn and the realization that futures will happen, regardless? Congratulations, you have now completed and passed the test. You are human. Want to know who has the best 7 Cups profile? Click here [http://7cups.com/11840748]!
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happy22icecream
L Advanced 10 394
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Hello! For more than eight years, I have been a steadfast member of the 7 Cups community. During this time, I have become a trained crisis counselor and have developed a number of skills that allow me to effectively listen to and support people who face an endless variety of difficulties, large and small. I am a firm believer in the safe, non-judgmental space that a 7 Cups listener creates for a person to express themselves. I think that this space is as essential as the actual conversation that takes place. Everyone has times when life gets overwhelming, and it is important to know that you can talk to someone who will not judge you and is there to serve you. I do my best to provide a directionally helpful conversation that also serves as a bridge toward next steps. 
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Erato
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Hello, I’m Era!  I'M NO LONGER ACTIVE AS A LISTENER.  ───✱*.。:。✱*.:。✧*.。✰*.:。✧*.。:。*.。✱ ─── I’m the Mentor Leader of the Teen Community. I oversee the teen community alongside Obs [https://www.7cups.com/@ASilentObserver].  My main responsibilities include strengthening teen community in all areas (group support, forums, listener rooms, etc.), addressing concerns and safety in the teen community, and building more structure, transparency, and communication in the teen community. You can reach out to me if you have questions/clarifications to ask, experiences you would like to share, suggestions/feedback about teen community or just want to poke my PMs for a pizza! ───✱*.。:。✱*.:。✧*.。✰*.:。✧*.。:。*.。✱ ─── Other Current Involvements: ➤ Mentor roles: Teen & Adult Chatroom Mentor | Teen Transitioning Mentor ➤ General roles: 7Cups Intern Grad with Honors [https://www.7cups.com/forum/DisabilitiesSupportCommunity_47/LearningDisabilities_262/WhatareLearningDisabilities_85828/] ​| Adult-Teen Listener  ➤ Supporter roles: Listener Room Supporter | Peer Supporter | Chat Support​​ ➤ Group Support roles:  Doorkeeper | Global Group Mod ➤ Community Projects/Teams: Safety Patrol team member ➤ Buddy System: Peer Support Buddy  ───✱*.。:。✱*.:。✧*.。✰*.:。✧*.。:。*.。✱ ─── ------------------------- I’m a fast-learner and an explorer so before my almost 2-year break, I tried out so many teams and roles and got involved in different areas of the community. Here are my previous roles! ➤ Mentor Leader roles: Group support Mentor Leader (Teens) ​| Internship Mentor Leader ➤ Mentor roles: Global Forum Mentor | Forum Mentor for Listener Learning & Journey [http://7cups.com/home/listenerjourney] ​| Support Team Mentor  ➤ General roles: Forum Supporter for 7Cups Internship [http://7cups.com/home/interns] ​| Project Agent for Social Soldiers Team [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ProjectsEvents_184/SocialMediaSoldiers_1619/] ➤ Community Projects/Teams: Forum Flag Team member ​| Listener Verifiers Team member ​| Translation Team member ​| Welcoming Team member ​| Q&A Approval Team member ​| Sponsor/Sponsee Program ➤ Group Support Teams: Events Team ​| Compassion Corner ​Team ​| Depression Support Team ​| Healthy Living Team | Positivity Team (Motivation & Self-Help Team)​ | Support+ Team ➤ Buddy system: Mentor buddy ​| Group mod buddy ​| Intern buddy ───✱*.。:。✱*.:。✧*.。✰*.:。✧*.。:。*.。✱ ─── CLICK ME FOR A SURPRISE! [http://mwkworks.com/desiderata.html]
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SpeissOfCake
L Specialist 5 759
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Buiness startup | Podcast | Personality Theory Enthusiest | 🔯 | LIE (ENTj) in Socionics **if unavailable I prefer to correspond on a message-to-message basis. My typical availabilities are some nights and weekends. Thank you.  
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WimbleWomble
L Marvel 4 5412
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Greetings :D, Viet here. I'm currently a college sophomore and a certified nursing assistant. I enjoy listening to conversations about people with personal issues and providing feedback to them. I plan to pursue my aspirations of becoming a nurse one day, specifically specializing in geriatrics patients as I'm super fond of them. I also do gym as a sort of therapy for me, it 2 years and still going strong! That's really it, I promise I'm not that boring once you get to know me and I get to know you :D. My favorite animals are elephant seals because they're cute, blubbery, and huggable.  Topics I'm not the best in relating to: ADHD, Drug Use, Bipolar, BPD, LGBTQ+, Sexual Assault, Depression. [Insert more stuff here]  
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