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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

KaylaBella
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I am on an extended self-care break. I will not be taking 1-1 chats at this time 💕  Hello my wonderful loves!🥰 My name is Kayla.💕 My nicknames are: Bells, Bella, Kay, Kayla, Bellaboo I would like to start out by saying that I am super excited to be here as a listener! I have been here for almost 10 years now, and Cups is a huge part of my life and my heart.    🌸💕🌸💕🌸 A little bit about me: I have been through a lot of trauma and challenges in my life. Without all of the those, I wouldn't be who I am today and I wouldn't change anything given the chance. 🥰 I have personal experience with many different  areas of Addiction as well as sexual trauma. I am very passionate about listening to and helping others. You guys are my passion!! 🌸💕🌸💕🌸 Everything listed below as chats that I take, are issues that I have personal experience with. 💕 If it is listed as chats I do not take, please do not request me as I will not be able to help you ♥️ 🌸💕🌸💕🌸 HOURS I AM AVAILABLE ***(Hours are subject to change dependent upon my personal life)*** Monday through Friday: 4:00PM - 6:00PM EST time Saturdays: 5:00PM - 10:00PM EST time every other Saturday Sundays: Self-Care Day, Not available for chats, May take a few but it truly depends on the circumstances of the day for me ***If I am offline when you message me, I will respond as soon as I can!*** CHATS I TAKE✅: Work Stress Panic Attacks Alcohol/Drug Abuse Chronic Pain Family Stress Forgiveness Parenting PTSD Relationship Stress Women's Issues Self Esteem Spirituality CHATS I DO NOT TAKE❌: Anxiety Depression Sexual Health (I will not take any chats that are sexual in any nature. Whether that be fantasies, roleplays, or in general sexual health.) Domestic Violence Grief Loneliness Men's Issues  Personality Disorders Self-Harm Schizophrenia  Everything that is said between me and you will remain between me and you. 💕  Remember: YOU ARE ENOUGH! AND YOU ARE LOVED! ♥️ Looking to spread some cheer?  Maybe shout out a fellow member or listener for how great they are?  Click the button below to spread some smiles🥰 Peer Appreciation Form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScsCXyPYjQ4dsfLMh2ZzXC4of1lEutJsSasbkzc6JLDq7b8ow/viewform] Community Projects I am a part of: ⭕ Chatroom Moderator for Positivity & Gratitude Community ✨ ⭕ Chatroom Moderator for Newbie Hub ✨  ⭕ Listener Chatroom Supporter ✨ ⭕ Star Leader for Peer Appreciation Team  ✨ ⭕ Discussion Host for Positivity & Gratitude Community ✨ ⭕ Doorkeeper ✨ Listener Twins: @OllieRNLI999 💕 & @MindfulJourney22 💕 Mentors: @Kristynsmama🌸 & @Sunisshiningandsoareyou🌸 LINKS FOR MEMBERS Moderator/Listener Review Form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScmfpQqScgcFxOSHveQfbP52m-XNu-DBC6oK7ieTHrGQ4hJ3w/viewform]  Why did I get this warning? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupportChatRooms_140/InformationUpdates_822/underconstruction_44686/]  Member FAQ [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupportChatRooms_140/InformationUpdates_822/GroupSupportMemberFAQ_37007/]  Group Support Chat Room Emergency [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScRXkwrrPicWRzUvBPYq2wrblHE5HexqFmVA3k3B4QLEoNyHw/viewform]  Report A Missing Discussion/Event [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe8EnUN-ZDdjEBQDP5D6-vi2noQdLndJ2H13woo89UhxlkhlQ/viewform]  Welcome Packet for New Members [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1CL9Yu_6zixlapOjdrhCgKLy9JN5wY3HWdrGH7PIO2WI] LINKS FOR LISTENERS Sign Up to be a Group Mod [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScX7nNahJocq0tgDYBesRicWxTfExFCe5QMI-O-04K-qBjZrA/viewform] Sign Up to be a Room Supporter [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSetyJ7jp7W52-EIpqvFYLhfmpsgTW4BbzUwmi9r22OQ9AdH8w/viewform] Become a Peer Support [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenersOnlyForums_38/PeerSupportForum_397/PeerSupportBadgeGetInvolvedSupportTheCommunity_2474/1/] Join a Support Team [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupportChatRooms_140/KatesCave_1395/JoinASupportTeamUpdatedInfo_102743/]  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupportChatRooms_140/KatesCave_1395/JoinASupportTeamUpdatedInfo_102743/] New Listener Hub [https://www.7cups.com/home/welcome/?notifyID=178791978]
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Rebekah
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 🌞 Introduction 🌞  Life is hard; we all know it. It's full of positive and negative moments, very few of which we have complete control over. You don't predict the future, the future predicts you. It's great to see that you're reaching out for support today. It may feel incredibly difficult to ask for guidance, be it for a current or a past situation - you are not alone in how you feel. Members: I'm currently unavailable for chats. Please click here to find a listener ---> https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/  Listeners: I'm currently... available! Please feel free to send me a message. I offer mentoring on chatroom, quality, and safety tracks! How I Listen: 🌞 I will ensure that you, as a person, are validated. How you feel is perfectly okay. 🌞 Please be aware that I will not be offering advice, as it could be very harmful to both you and your situation, and could cause offence. 🌞 You will suffer no judgement from me. 🌞 Our chat will be as supportive and comforting as possible. 🌞 Finally, I will make sure that you are heard. Your voice deserves to be listened to. -------------------------  🌻 My Involvements 🌻   🌻 Quality 🌻  o Verified Adult-Teen Listener: I completed an interview and a mock chat with a highly experienced listener to show that I'm suitable to chat with teens, and a listener of high quality.  🌻 o Listener Verifier Team: I verify listeners through the Verified Listener project!  🌻 o [Teen] Quality Mentoring: I mentor adult and teen listener quality!  🌻 o Quality Mentor Leading: I lead the Safety Team. Find out more about this team by sending me a message!  🌻 o Quality Ambassador: I am so privileged to be an ambassador for 7 Cups!   🌻 Safety 🌻  o Safety Patrol: I flag profiles that have violations.  🌻 o Safety Outreach: I send messages to users who have fixable profile violations.  🌻 o Safety Discussions: I host and create discussions on safety topics.  🌻 o Safety Team [ST] Leader: I co-lead the Safety Team! There are 3 branches: safety patrol, safety outreach, and safety discussions. If you have any questions, please feel free to send me a message!  🌻 o Safety Ambassador: I am so privileged to be an ambassador for 7 Cups!   🌻 Chat Rooms 🌻  o Doorkeeper: I'm able to open & close chat rooms.  🌻 o Peer Support: I offer support to listeners after a difficult chat (*not* for personal issues. That is what member accounts are for).  🌻 o Chat Support: I offer support to listeners during a tricky chat.  🌻 o Global Chatroom Moderation: I help to create a positive and inclusive environment in all member chat rooms!  🌻 o [Teen] Chatroom Mentor: I moderate in the listener chat rooms to ensure they stay safe and inclusive!  -------------------------  🧁 About Me 🧁   🧁 I love video gaming, especially The Sims 4, Forza Horizon 4, and Resident Evil -- 4? Yes, but also the others 😛.  🧁 I love Doctor Who (10th Doctor is my favourite)!   🧁 I am once again questioning my sexuality, and I don't mind what pronouns you use! 🌈💙  🧁 My favourite music genres are classic rock, heavy metal, 70s/80s pop/rock, punk rock, and indie/alternative.   🧁 I am currently dealing with obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) and complex-post traumatic stress disorder (c-PTSD).   🧁 My favourite artists are; My Chemical Romance // Lady Gaga // Green Day // Joji // Amy Winehouse // Måneskin // Nothing But Thieves  -------------------------  ✨ VIPs ✨ @bouncySalamander26 [https://www.7cups.com/@bouncysalamander26]; Sal is a joy. He's funny, kind, a fantastic friend. Thank you, for always being awesome!  P.S. "snoozy sponge!" @Gracey [https://www.7cups.com/@Gracey]; I will never be able to thank Grace enough for her kindness and support over the years. She is sweet, understanding, patient, and always knows how to help out. Thank you, for always being a good friend 💙 @Tazzie [https://www.7cups.com/@Tazzie]; I miss you. You were an amazing listener, a dedicated leader, and an outstanding person. Thank you, for always believing in me. Rest eternally in peace 🕯️ #Sun4Lyf 💙
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Ranaeil
L Connoisseur 8 352
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Thank you for finding my little spot here at 7cups. I will do my best to listen to you and hear you out. I can't guarantee solutions, only a listening ear. Some areas where I can best support are: anxiety, grief, disability. I enjoy listening to music, playing video games and reading. I have had my share of rough patches in life, but I came out on the other side. My current roles here at 7cups: •Chatroom Mentor •Quality Mentor •Chat Support •Peer Support •Safety Patrol Team Member •Anonymous Evaluation Team Member • Adult-Teen Listener I do not take pregnancy or parenting chats.
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AmethystUnicorn
L Advanced 9 267
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Whether you think you can or whether you think you can't, you're right. Welcome to 7 Cups! My name is Amethyst / Mar :)  I'm super glad you joined us here! I hope you find your stay comfortable and welcoming. Please reach out to me if there's anything I can do for you <3
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happy22icecream
L Advanced 10 394
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Hello! For more than eight years, I have been a steadfast member of the 7 Cups community. During this time, I have become a trained crisis counselor and have developed a number of skills that allow me to effectively listen to and support people who face an endless variety of difficulties, large and small. I am a firm believer in the safe, non-judgmental space that a 7 Cups listener creates for a person to express themselves. I think that this space is as essential as the actual conversation that takes place. Everyone has times when life gets overwhelming, and it is important to know that you can talk to someone who will not judge you and is there to serve you. I do my best to provide a directionally helpful conversation that also serves as a bridge toward next steps. 
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chlowii
L Explorer 8 242
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Hey! My names Chlowii. I am a recent Psychology Graduate 👩‍🎓 🧠 Aspiring to become a mental health counselor/therapist. I am currently a verified active listener here on 7Cups, have been for a little while now and absolutely love the idea of helping people, something I have a huge passion for. I am also a Chatroom Moderator for Anxiety Support and do some other roles such as Dicussion Writing too, hopefully this list will grow at some point! Always down for chat about anything, if its about food or the issues you are going through honestly I am so easy to chat too so feel free to drop me a message or speak to me about whatever. I will promise to always respond, it may not be 24/7 or straight away but I will never leave your mesage unanswered just give me time. I have experience with - Anxiety - OCD - Depression - Stress - Managing Emotions Don't worry if your issues aren't listed here, I am always willing to listen and support and if not I will ensure you are greeted with the best and most suitable support available. About Me I am British. So my times work as GMT, so if I don't respond straight away it's probably a time zone thing. I enjoy video games, music festivals and gigs, I play tennis for a club and this is my favourite sport no doubt. I am a big fan of watching TV shows and series and I enjoy films too. I do a lot of volunteering especially in the mental health field, this is something I love.
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Yukihiko
L Proficient 8 1187
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Hi there, Yuki here! I'm a verified active listener here on 7 Cups. I am experienced in chats about ADHD, trauma/PTSD, depression, anxiety, and panic attacks. But you may look at the topics I'm able to take in the categories. Other than the these, I may not be experienced but I will try my best to actively listen and be empathetic to you. I believe that there is a good in everyone regardless of who they are as long as they want to be. I believe that everyone can live a happy life. If you are going through something hard and feel like there's no way out, know that you are not alone  Listeners I've been a listener since 2018 on 7 Cups. Don't be afraid to reach out to me! I understand the ups and downs of being a listener and I appreciate every single one of you. I'm also passionate about improving listeners' active listening quality. My preferred listening style I provide a non-judgmental space for you to vent or talk about your issues, and you may expect from me what a 7 Cups listener should do. I like to give thoughtful questions for both of us to understand the situation better. My response may be slow at times because I'm thinking of what's the best for you and what I should say. I tend to give you space when I see that you're typing. My availability varies, but you're welcomed to leave me a message anytime. About Me - My interests: Drawing, psychology, reading, learning Japanese, writing, typology (MBTI and Enneagram), graphology, anime (Koe no Katachi, Attack on Titan, Tokyo Ghoul, and more). - I'm fluent in both English and Indonesian, but I prefer using English. - My personality type is ESTP. Enneagram 8w7. Instinctual variant sx/so. Tritype 854. Sanguine. (I'd LOVE to help you discover your personality type so don't be afraid to drop a message!) Topics that I don't feel comfortable with: - Alcohol/Drug use - LGBTQ+ (I'd love to but sometimes they can be triggering) - Sexual Health My Roles/Previous Roles Teen Quality Star [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TeensOnlyClub_123/TeenLeadersSubcommunity_1556/TeenStarInfoandApplications_126608/] Teen Community Star [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ProjectsEvents_184/SubcommunitiesLeadership_686/AnnouncementCommunityMentorTeenCommunityStarRolerelaunch_244943/] on Support Plus [https://www.7cups.com/home/supportplus/] Chat Supporter Safety Patrol [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SafetyKnowledgeat7Cups_181/SafetyPatrolTeam_1685/CallingAllVerifiedListenersApplytoJointheProfilePatrolTeam_152025/1/] Verified Listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/QualityProjectsVerifiedListeners_144/IWanttobeaVerifiedListener_46935/1/] Growth Path Builder. [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SiteUpdates_100/GlensNookCommunity_547/OurGrowthPathBuilderisNowAvailable_240264/1/]  My Twin Listeners @lueurspace [https://www.7cups.com/@lueurspace] Lueur has a youthful soul and a fine as wine taste in music. My non-blood related sister <3 @BrightHeart116 [https://www.7cups.com/@BrightHeart116]  Emily is a sweet person!! She's really strong and resilient <3 "If I can stop one heart from breaking, I shall not live in vain." - Emily Dickinson Check my bio for an update of my whereabouts (Underlined texts are clickable) (Previous usernames: EmikoKokoro and Emery5)
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